How Porn Can Make Men Really Stupid

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When men rely on what they see in movies as the way to treat women sexually, porn becomes a problem.

There is been an ongoing debate over the evils and benefits of pornography, otherwise known as simply porn. Of course, youíll be able to find people all over the place that will state just how evil porn is and that it should be abolished. Most of these people have some sort of religious affiliation and that is why they proclaim to feel as they do. However, a high percentage of this group of people are secretly viewing the best porn while publically claiming that it's wrong.

The people claiming that it should be banned have some decent reasons for feeling this way. They feel that porn causes men and women to do things that they wouldn't have done otherwise. That may be true up to a point. However, it should also be noted that these people most likely had a predilection of doing those things anyway. The porn just kind of pushed a button for them.

Porn doesn't change a person. It can enhance certain ideas or leanings, but it doesn't change the basic personality of anyone. In fact, it can even help keep the more dangerous fetishists off the street and at home in front of the computer or television screen. It's certainly something to consider.

Now, the one thing about porn that can actually be damaging is when an inexperienced man takes what he sees in the movie as the gospel in how you should treat women sexually. The one thing you should never, ever do when you're just starting to be sexually active is to practice things that you see in porn movies. Granted, some of these moves can spice up your sex life if you're already part of a couple because you know what makes sense and what is simply just plain stupid. An experienced person won't necessarily realize this.

It is for this very reason that many men start acting in a very stupid fashion from watching porn. A lot of them then go out into the world and try to put into action what they witnessed on a really weird porn video. As porn has targeted primarily men, there is little wonder that women are mostly exploited in these movies. So men watch these movies and believe that all women love having their hair pulled, being pushed to their knees, and having various things forced into their mouths and other odd areas of the body. That could be the reason that they're so shocked when they try these things and women not only do not like them, but they may actually retaliate physically, believing themselves to be in danger.

No, porn isn't necessarily a bad thing. In fact, it can be exciting and arousing for couples when they use it the right way. However, if you are a sexually inexperienced guy, don't take everything you see in porn to be literal. That is a very bad mistake and it makes you look insensitive, boorish and stupid to a woman that you probably want very much to impress.

If you really want to know what sort of things women like, try watching the porn that is made by and for women. It will teach you a lot. However, remember that the one woman you're with can teach you volumes more than a hundred porn movies.

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