Charly Emery, Author

Charly  Emery - Author, Dating Coach, Divorce Coach, Life Coach, Marriage/Couples Counselor, Mediator, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, Wellness Coach - Calabasas, CA
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123 Love Street
Calabasas, CA
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"No matter what your patterns have been in life or love, we can shift them quickly and get you the results you crave —and we'll have a good time doing it!"

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8 Simple Tips to Make Valentine's Day Even Better

Making Valentine's day a proof test can ruin an otherwise wonderful relationship. Have you ever wondered why so many men cringe at the mere mention of Valentine's Day? In truth, the men you love want to enjoy expressing their love just as much as you do. The problem is that all too often the societal and ...

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Mom Trying To Sabotage Your Relationship? 3 Steps To Take

Finding a fabulous romantic partner can be tough enough without your mom sabotaging your chances for lasting love after you may have found it. No matter how understanding and patient your increasingly significant other is, there are still limits. We're seeing this damaging dynamic play out right before our ...

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What 'RHOA' Star Porsha Stewart's Divorce Can Teach Us

Sure we could chalk up the Stewart's impending divorce as another casualty of the reality show curse, but in truth their short lived marriage provides something powerful we can all ...

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Why He Won't Say "I Love You."

The feeling of being in love is like nothing else. Exciting, intoxicating, uplifting and heartwarming; the next best thing to experiencing love is declaring your love to the man you love right? Well... not exactly. If you share that ...

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3 Questions To Ask Before Dating An Ex-Con

Tune into weekly segments of Dateline, 20/20 or 48 Hours, and you'll quickly discover that an overwhelming number of crimes committed daily are enacted by people without criminal records. Even worse, these bliss-busting sleeper cells shock their loved ones from inside the most appealing neighborhoods, ...

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Success Stories

Loving You First with Awareness & Accountability

"If you want your life to be the best it can be please keep reading. I met with Charly on the phone. She identified my conflicting behaviors, identifying how I sabotaged myself both professionally and personally. I had loved ones over the years that tried to tell me what I was doing and I did not understand what they meant until I spoke with Charly. She was able to communicate to me in a way that I finally understood what others were trying to tell for years. A light bulb went on and my life has been better for it. Since our meeting I received a raise at work and met the man of my dreams. I am now able to identify my skewed filters and am able to respond to them in a healthy, constructive way. In my relationships, I now have the tools to communicate what I need to be happy and healthy and am a better partner, friend, daughter and sister as a result.

Charly has a way of identifying our pasts, how it affects our behaviors and thoughts and is able to provide us with her wisdom and insight to improve our present and future. She identified I had everything I needed within, I just did not know it or have the strength to acknowledge it.

Thank you Charly, for coming into my life and changing it for the better. In return, I have changed others lives for the better as well." —Rebecca in CO

From Dodging Divorce to Dancing with Love

"Hi Charly! I'm just thinking about ya and wanted 2 check in&say hello. Everything is good with us & I'm excited to make it continue!! Thank you so much for everything you've done to help us! We talk again instead of texting and you were so right about needing to set boundaries with the kids. All in all things are great and I'm even starting the new business we talked about it. I'll keep you posted, THANK YOU AGAIN SO MUCH for everything!"

—Karen, Los Angeles

There are so many factors that contribute to divorce today... fear, resentment and breakdowns in communication are typically at the helm building up the walls that close out love. Unlike most couple's counseling, when I work with couples I meet with each spouse separately to maximize my understanding of the core issues at work. I communicate what's happening and create a strategy for them to engage individually and as a couple. Most importantly I want to be sure that each person is fuly aware of their role in the overall results so they can make the necessary corrections and move forward with power, strength and honesty.

If you've recently gone through a divorce or find yourself affected by experiences from a previous relationship(s). "Thank Goodness You Dumped His Ass—Use Those Mr. Wrongs to Lead You Straight to Mr. Right" has the specific tools to help you reconcile your past and grasp the essential information about your role in your results so you transform your love life. Every step is the exact same step I took to recycle my divorce into invaluable wisdom and attract an amazing partner! The best in life and love await you ; )

—Charly

From Defensive & Date-less to Engaged & Ecstatic

40-something *Julia came to me as a beautiful, yet emotionally defensive actress who couldn't attract a decent date let alone a serious contender for a relationship. We had (3) 1hr sessions over a period of 4 weeks during which time we traced the source of her fear, anger and defensiveness back to childhood.

We explored her deepest interests and desires, redefined her beliefs and desires honestly, and pinpointed where and how modern day concepts of female empowerment and independence were dis-empowering her relationships. We then created a straightforward strategy to attract what she wanted as well as detect when old thoughts and fears resurfaced so they couldn't sabotage her efforts. By learning how to put herself first with awareness and accountability, she started directing her results with power.

Within three months *Julia atttracted a wonderful partner.

On December 21, 2011 —less than two years later I received this email along with a photograhp of her new engagement ring!

"engaged!! today !! thankyou for everything! I love you coach!"

CredentialsOther
Time in Practice10 years +
I practice inAll areas, please inquire
Additional ExpertiseDating Coach
Divorce Coach
Life Coach
Marriage/Couples Counselor
Mediator
Relationship Coach
Speaker/Presenter
Wellness Coach
I offer my servicesAt my office
Telephone
Via Skype
Other, please inquire
I am fluent inEnglish
Latest Expert Videos
My Store

How To Date When You're Famous

Whether you’re famous and dating or wanting to date someone who’s ...

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Thank Goodness You Dumped His Ass Ultimate Relationship E-Guide

Like Cliffs Notes for Charly Emery's coveted dating handbook, ...

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Thank Goodness You Dumped His Ass: Use Those Mr. Wrongs to Lead You Straight to Mr. Right

Feeling frustrated about falling short of the results you wanted? ...

USD $13.46

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Thank Goodness You Dumped His Ass: Use Those Mr. Wrongs to Lead You Straight to Mr. Right

Feeling frustrated about falling short of the results you wanted? ...

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CredentialsOther
Time in Practice10 years +
I practice inAll areas, please inquire
Additional ExpertiseDating Coach
Divorce Coach
Life Coach
Marriage/Couples Counselor
Mediator
Relationship Coach
Speaker/Presenter
Wellness Coach
I offer my servicesAt my office
Telephone
Via Skype
Other, please inquire
I am fluent inEnglish
Latest Expert Videos
My Store

How To Date When You're Famous

Whether you’re famous and dating or wanting to date someone who’s ...

Buy online

Thank Goodness You Dumped His Ass Ultimate Relationship E-Guide

Like Cliffs Notes for Charly Emery's coveted dating handbook, ...

Buy online

Thank Goodness You Dumped His Ass: Use Those Mr. Wrongs to Lead You Straight to Mr. Right

Feeling frustrated about falling short of the results you wanted? ...

USD $13.46

Buy online

Thank Goodness You Dumped His Ass: Use Those Mr. Wrongs to Lead You Straight to Mr. Right

Feeling frustrated about falling short of the results you wanted? ...

Buy online