Charly Emery, Author

Charly  Emery - Author, Dating Coach, Divorce Coach, Life Coach, Marriage/Couples Counselor, Mediator, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, Wellness Coach - Calabasas, CA


123 Love Street
Calabasas, CA
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I Believe

"No matter what your patterns have been in life or love, we can shift them quickly and get you the results you crave —and we'll have a good time doing it!"

About Me

Hi! I'm Charly Emery. You may have seen me as a relationship expert on Fox News in LA or Boston where I've shared tips from my modern dating handbook for women, Thank Goodness You Dumped His Ass—Use Those Mr. Wrongs to Lead You Straight to Mr. Right! You could have also seen me appear on E! network as a personal strategist on, Opening Act, where I helped performer Von Smith quickly shift the patterns with his mother so they would no longer sabotage his music career.

Have you ever found yourself feeling frustrated or stuck? Maybe you already know what to do yet you can’t figure out why you’re not doing it —so you keep winding up in the same patterns experiencing similar disappointments…

I was there so I know how you feel. Whether you know what to do or don't feel like you have a clue, if you want to be able to cut to the chase and shift things quickly, I’m the perfect person to help you get it done fast. Even though I love my TV gigs, most of the time you’ll find me having private sessions with people just like you via phone, Skype or in person.

My expertise as a personal strategist comes directly from life experience. Check out my personal story and you’ll see why I can relate to how you may feel. Years ago after the trauma I’d repressed resurfaced I knew that rather than traditional therapy, I’d benefit most from a result oriented resource who could help me gain clarity and map out a simple plan of action I could follow to transform my life quickly. I couldn't find that person, so I did the work myself and then became the strategic resource for others that I couldn’t find.

As a strategist I am a problem solver who focuses solely on creating the changes and results you desire as quickly as possible by recycling what you've experienced into what you want. This rids you of emotional baggage too. I remove all the mystery, show you how to shift your patterns and provide you with a simple personalized strategy for creating immediate results. You can see what Celebrity Stylist, Lisa M. Berman had to say about our session in this video along with what other clients say about working with me.

Contact me today for a free 10 minute chat to assess your desires and how we can get you the results you want. Visit me at and sign up for my FREE newsletter so we can stay in touch. Cheers to the best life and love have to offer! 

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The Reason I Became A Helping Professional

After recycling my trauma and accomplishing the personal transformation that some professionals said was impossible, I knew I had to become the resource for others that I couldn't find so I could help them create the results they crave efficiently, effectively and quickly. Knowing firsthand how it feels to crave something better, I wanted to save people time and money so they could experience what they want sooner, which is exactly what my strategic personalized approach does.

Success Stories

Loving You First with Awareness & Accountability

"If you want your life to be the best it can be please keep reading. I met with Charly on the phone. She identified my conflicting behaviors, identifying how I sabotaged myself both professionally and personally. I had loved ones over the years that tried to tell me what I was doing and I did not understand what they meant until I spoke with Charly. She was able to communicate to me in a way that I finally understood what others were trying to tell for years. A light bulb went on and my life has been better for it. Since our meeting I received a raise at work and met the man of my dreams. I am now able to identify my skewed filters and am able to respond to them in a healthy, constructive way. In my relationships, I now have the tools to communicate what I need to be happy and healthy and am a better partner, friend, daughter and sister as a result.

Charly has a way of identifying our pasts, how it affects our behaviors and thoughts and is able to provide us with her wisdom and insight to improve our present and future. She identified I had everything I needed within, I just did not know it or have the strength to acknowledge it.

Thank you Charly, for coming into my life and changing it for the better. In return, I have changed others lives for the better as well." —Rebecca in CO

From Dodging Divorce to Dancing with Love

"Hi Charly! I'm just thinking about ya and wanted 2 check in&say hello. Everything is good with us & I'm excited to make it continue!! Thank you so much for everything you've done to help us! We talk again instead of texting and you were so right about needing to set boundaries with the kids. All in all things are great and I'm even starting the new business we talked about it. I'll keep you posted, THANK YOU AGAIN SO MUCH for everything!"

—Karen, Los Angeles

There are so many factors that contribute to divorce today... fear, resentment and breakdowns in communication are typically at the helm building up the walls that close out love. Unlike most couple's counseling, when I work with couples I meet with each spouse separately to maximize my understanding of the core issues at work. I communicate what's happening and create a strategy for them to engage individually and as a couple. Most importantly I want to be sure that each person is fuly aware of their role in the overall results so they can make the necessary corrections and move forward with power, strength and honesty.

If you've recently gone through a divorce or find yourself affected by experiences from a previous relationship(s). "Thank Goodness You Dumped His Ass—Use Those Mr. Wrongs to Lead You Straight to Mr. Right" has the specific tools to help you reconcile your past and grasp the essential information about your role in your results so you transform your love life. Every step is the exact same step I took to recycle my divorce into invaluable wisdom and attract an amazing partner! The best in life and love await you ; )


From Defensive & Date-less to Engaged & Ecstatic

40-something *Julia came to me as a beautiful, yet emotionally defensive actress who couldn't attract a decent date let alone a serious contender for a relationship. We had (3) 1hr sessions over a period of 4 weeks during which time we traced the source of her fear, anger and defensiveness back to childhood.

We explored her deepest interests and desires, redefined her beliefs and desires honestly, and pinpointed where and how modern day concepts of female empowerment and independence were dis-empowering her relationships. We then created a straightforward strategy to attract what she wanted as well as detect when old thoughts and fears resurfaced so they couldn't sabotage her efforts. By learning how to put herself first with awareness and accountability, she started directing her results with power.

Within three months *Julia atttracted a wonderful partner.

On December 21, 2011 —less than two years later I received this email along with a photograhp of her new engagement ring!

"engaged!! today !! thankyou for everything! I love you coach!"

Time in Practice10 years +
I practice inAll areas, please inquire
Additional ExpertiseDating Coach
Divorce Coach
Life Coach
Marriage/Couples Counselor
Relationship Coach
Wellness Coach
I offer my servicesAt my office
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I am fluent inEnglish
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