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Be careful when you jump.
By Kelcey Connors — Written on Jun 30, 2017
Love is so many things. It can be new and exciting, or it can be absolutely terrifying. And when it comes down to it, everyone approaches love a different way.
Some people believe you will only be successful in love if you give it your all, jump right into it, and keep your guard down.
Lets be honest, these people are fearless and maybe a little bit crazy. Sometimes it works for them, and sometimes they do end up heartbroken regardless.
But even people who enter relationships with their guard up can become heartbroken too. So what’s the best way to approach a relationship?
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I’m not sure there is a right answer to that one. Everyone and every relationship are different and unique, so there are things that may work for one relationship but not another.
If there was one piece of advice I could offer up though, it would be not to jump or fall in love too hard and too quickly.
A lot of times when this happens you’ll be in a completely different point in your relationship than the other member of it is. This could lead to fights and a lot of crying. Lots and Lots of emotions.
I’m sure everyone will fall in love hard at least once in their life, but there are some people and some zodiac signs that love too hard ALL the time!
The thing is, they probably don't even realize their doing it until it’s too late to stop themselves. So it’s time to identify the astrological signs that love too hard in hopes that once they know, they can be more aware and save themselves from heartbreak.
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
You are always ready for fun, and in your opinion, that’s what new relationships are! If it’s all work and no play from the start, you just know it wont work out and you don’t waste your time.
But when you jump into the fun and easy romances, you seem to miss the fact that you’ve also jumped straight into love with them maybe a bit too soon.
You’re planning the rest of your life together before you even know basic details about them.
The next time you find yourself entering a new relationship, it would definitely help to remind yourself to take it slow and get to know the person well before you state your love for them.
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Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
You form strong attachments to the people surrounding you very quickly, and this can include potential new romantic interests. These attachments may even be formed before the two of you have gone on your first official date.
All that time you’ve spent checking their social media platforms and talking to your friends about them has given you the false sense of already knowing them.
This can definitely lead to you getting hurt when they don't live up to their social media presence in real life. Love can be disappointing like that.
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Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
Not only do you believe in love at first sight, you’ve experienced it. Probably multiple times.
Sometimes it’s a delayed reaction, and you don't realize your infatuations with them until midway through your first date. Other times, it happens the moment you lay eyes on them from across the bar on a crowded night out.
Unfortunately, you’ve found that more times than not love at first sight is a major let down.
A lot of times their good looks are not followed up by an amazing personality, or the first date was jut better than the next. It happens. But, you know it wont be long before you’re head over heels for the next one so you’re not too heartbroken.
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Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
You are the master of self control in almost all things, but definitely not in love. As they say, the heart wants what it wants and you can’t see to convince it otherwise.
The worst part is, you can normally tell when things are going to end badly before they even begin.
You know you’ll be the one who ends up heartbroken. But, you cant seem to do anything but risk it all for love. You know that one day it will all pay off.
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Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
Pisces is years ahead when feelings are concerned than their significant other. While she has already planned out their detailed wedding and starting a family, her partner is still in the having fun phase of the relationship.
And this communication mishap, or simply lack of communication, is where Pisces unfortunately ends up hurt.
She doesn't mean to jump into love, and a lot of times she doesn’t. But, the relationships is just too good to be true and she cant imagine the person she’s dating not feeling the same way.
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