I think there's a misconception about women and sex.
Well, let's be honest, there are roughly 8 million misconceptions about women and sex.
Lies, lies I say!
While some women could take or leave dirty talk and others would rather just plain leave it, dirty talk is one of those things that can take an average sexual experience and kick it up a notch. It makes foreplay just banarang!
We're talking a notch so high that even Emeril would blush, but he shouldn't be watching anyway. Unless that's what you're into, I don't know your life.
Be it during foreplay, or during the deed itself, the dirty talk girls want to hear often includes stuff about our bodies, about the activity at hand. It doesn't have to be original, but like all good foreplay, it's got to be specific.
I asked real women what kind of dirty talk girls want to hear in bed and they were happy to share!
Ladies, what kind of dirty talk when you crave when the two of your are having sex?
- "It feels so good to be inside you."
- "Fuck yeah, bitch. Take it."
- "How good I feel, and using my name in general."
- "Compliments like 'you're so fucking sexy,' 'That's so fucking hot,' or even being called his little slut — that word is just a turn-on for me (don't really feel the same way about 'whore' or anything else derogatory outside of the bedroom). I like hearing what he's enjoying ('I love how your pussy feels,' 'I love your lips all over my cock,' etc.) and what he wants ('I want to make you come so hard' ... 'I want to fuck you like an animal' hahah)."
- "I love it when he tells me how good I feel and taste, and how badly he wants me."
- "...is dirty talk a thing that can happen?"
- "I want to feel your sweet wet pussy wrapped around my throbbing dick! I need you!!"
- "I like to hear about 2 men getting intimate and then getting dirty..."
- "You're so tight."
- "I always appreciate encouragement and hearing what he likes, commands or requests. Also, questions like 'do you like that?' Or 'do you want more?' Dirty or not, anything that helps facilitate communication so we both feel like we're in a safe space for vocalizing what we want is awesome!"
- "I want you."
- "Your pussy's so tight, you feel so good, fuck me, I'm gonna cum, how many more do you want?"
- "Tell me you like it baby."
- "That pussy is nice and wet."
- "Put my cock in your mouth."
- "That I'm a good girl/bad girl."
- "How fabulous I look/feel/taste. Just don't say pussy, I fucking hate that word."