5 Reasons Every Man Should Give DOUBLE Vaginal Sex A Try

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5 Reasons Men Should Try Kinky Double Vaginal Penetration (DVP)
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If you don't think a threesome with 2 women 'makes her gay,' why is adding another dude different?

Double vaginal penetration (known as DVP) is pretty much exactly what it sounds like — two men penetrating one woman's vagina with their penises at the same time.

Before heteronormative thinking sends you off to the land of assumption, believing this kind of a threesome is one only super kinky homosexual or bi men would ever engage in, take a moment to consider this perspective from one decidedly straight male lover of all things DVP.

Here are 5 reasons ALL men give the sexy experience of a threesome involving double vaginal penetration a try.

1. Double vaginal penetration feels incredible for women.

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Ask any woman who’s had the pleasure of feeling this sensation. If she hasn't yet, she might squirm at the idea of two men inside of her, especially if she’s convinced she’s too tight or it will irreparably stretch her out. 

These are common objections from women who’ve never had the pleasure of receiving DVP, but most often they are invalid concerns. Some women, especially those who’ve never given birth or who have less sexual experience feel some discomfort initially, but it usually subsides quickly — and that’s where you guys come in.

Being an ethical and compassionate lover means making sure your partner(s) are enjoying themselves. So ask her.

And for the love of everything kinky, use lots of lube! I cannot stress this enough. Double vaginal creates A LOT of friction, so it’s imperative everybody’s nice and lubed up. Yeah, even if she’s super wet already, guys. I love organic, extra-virgin cold-pressed coconut oil personally. I wouldn’t recommend coconut oil with condoms, as oil tampers with the integrity of latex, but any lubricant you’ve got in your sex toy drawer will do. Just use it, and use it liberally, especially if it’s her first time.

Use lube, not spit. Capisce?

In my experience, women have much more powerful orgasms during DVP, and because men LOVE being able to take a woman to orgasm, this contributes to their own heightened arousal in a BIG way. I’m sure this goes back to some sort of primal male thing we’ve got programmed into us. Most guys feel like a "real" man or empowered by their masculinity when they get a partner off. This is completely fine, so long as there’s no shaming or guilting going on if our partner(s) are unable to achieve orgasm.

The best part is that a lot of women end up having multiple orgasms from DVP — as long as the guys can stay in the game long enough without their own orgasms hitting first (a true challenge!).

2. Experimenting with sexual taboos can be a HUGE turn-on.  

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There’s a reason Tumblr blogs focused on double penetration are enormously popular. The feeling that you're pushing the limits of what is socially acceptable as a heterosexual (or bi, queer, pansexual, etc.) guy contributes to a rush of adrenaline and leads to sexual fulfillment like you've never before felt. 

As one of my buddies explained:

“The taboo [of DVP] is a huge turn-on ... The thought that she’d go as far as to put two [penises] in her [vagina] is very satisfying. Coupled with the fact that she is also getting off on it, being a total ‘slut’ for pure satisfaction. Knowing her man would rub [penises] with another [penis] while inside her and she is getting pleasure puts me over the edge.”

The “internal frottage,” or friction, created from the other guy’s penis while you both thrust in and out of her creates an unmatched sexual experience you’ll only understand once you have it. In fact, for your first few times, you’re likely to only last a few minutes, guys. Don’t worry! That just means you get to rev back up and go again for a longer round 2 if she’s willing. 

And women love experiencing sex with two men who don’t have sexual insecurities and hang-ups, as it allows them to enjoy their own experience even more.

3. Men deserve permission to explore all facets of their sexuality.  

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One of the first things that come out of most men’s mouths when considering double vag is concern that the act will make them gay. I even heard celebrity gossip blogger Perez Hilton proclaim in the latest episode of Loveline with Amber Rose and Dr. Chris Donaghue that the act is “pretty gay.”

I find this kind of language particularly harmful coming from an openly gay man. Projecting the same type of sexual shame onto others that society forces onto you isn’t only hypocritical, it demonstrates a level of sexual naivety that can only be squashed by more of us giving other human beings the liberty to express themselves sexually as they each see fit. The sexual liberation of LGBTQ folks has (albeit unconsciously) begun to liberate straight folks as well, and we all deserve that permission sans judgment from closed-minded individuals dead-set on projecting their own limiting beliefs around sexuality.

To be fair, Perez was clear he thinks the act is “hot,” but to invoke Vikings Punter Chris Kluwe, I vehemently refute the notion that this act will “magically turn you into a lustful c*ckmonster.”  

Does it allow for a nice bit of harmless sexual experimentation? Absolutely.

May it open you up to exploring other facets of your sexuality you haven’t previously considered? Perhaps.

And that’s a REALLY good thing!

Could you possibly realize after careful reflection that you’ve previously held limitations around your sexuality that no longer serve you after this experience?  Sure, that is possible. 

It’s about damn time men were given the same liberties as women in today’s world to explore a bit across the sexual spectrum ... wouldn’t you agree?

Whether you're aware of it or not, we are currently on the cutting edge of a global shift in sexual consciousness — and it couldn’t be more exciting. This may be a function of the rapid rise in overall consciousness surging the planet in this specific time of our planet’s history. It may be a function of the fact that porn is helping us to collectively see beyond long-held sexually limiting beliefs that don’t serve us as a whole. 

Either way, consider letting go of the homophobic programming this society has implanted in your brain. You’ll experience immense sexual pleasure — and you’ll be glad you did.

4. DVP sex promotes healthy male bonding and strengthens personal connections of all involved.  

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Males have long sought strong companionship and camaraderie with other males in all sorts of situations and environments.

Why have we made sex dirty and an inappropriate way to do the same thing? Why is it perfectly acceptable to invite a buddy over to crack open a beer and get shit-faced drunk watching a football game and yelling at the screen as a way to bond, but sharing in this kind of beautiful sexual connection isn’t? There’s something deeply rooted in our beliefs around the human sexual experience worth looking at here.

The physical closeness of double vaginal sex can lead to male friends developing even closer bonds and opening up to each other in ways they previously left unexplored. There’s a reason why there’s tons of amateur MMF porn with titles like, “I Share My Wife With a Buddy,” “Wife Shared With Friends,” and “My Buddies Bang My Wife While I Watch."

Whether it’s a healthy dose of competition, male bonding, or whatever, there’s something about the way we’re programmed that makes this sort of thing just feel ... natural. Science even suggests that men achieve much more heightened arousal in sexual environments where there are multiple men on one woman.

5. The sexual synergy that manifests out of double vaginal sex is unlike anything you’ll ever experience.   

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One of the most powerful energies available to humans is sexual energy. In that moment we physically connect our body with that of another person, we connect at much deeper levels. 

In his famous book, Think & Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill details the process he calls sexual transmutation and how when properly understood and exercised it can aid in manifesting material wealth, among other things. So this sexual energy is legit shit, y’all. Everything you’re able to see and touch on the planet is energy manifested in one form or another.

When we engage in sexual activity with another, our aural energies become intertwined. This is why some people unknowingly take on characteristics or moods of their partners after having sex without even realizing it. Sex is a spiritual experience that connects us to the energy of the cosmos. This is what happens during the intensely pleasurable moments of orgasm — and it's one of the greatest gifts we’ve been given as a species.

All this is leading up to say that when you add more people to the equation, things get pretty intense energy-wise. Having a simultaneous orgasm with all 3 partners through double vaginal penetration is definitely one of the HOTTEST and most powerful sexual experiences I’ve ever had, and that has a lot to do with the sexual synergy all 3 partners create in the act.

In conclusion, double vaginal penetration is sensational for ALL involved and is a great way for men to give immense pleasure to their female partner while simultaneously exploring and honoring all facets of their own sexuality. 

It’s a feeling unlike any other, and you’re sure to become hooked once you give a try.

So what are you waiting for? Hop to it!

Enjoy your sexuality liberally and without self-criticism.

 

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