Don't Let His BS Make You Think You're Not Worthy Of Love — You Are

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Don't let him win.

If you are in a relationship, and you feel anything but total love and support, then you need to leave. Period. 

There are way too many women who stay with shitty guys who make them feel like shit for way too long.

While comfort and familiarity are nice, self-love and happiness are a whole lot nicer.

Some guys — not all — have an insecurity that goes so deep that they can only be with a woman if they feel like they have total control over her. And one, really awful way to do that is by making her feel like she isn't worthy of love.

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He'll pinpoint her biggest fears and use them to make her doubt herself. He'll tell her all the things that are wrong with her, but then turn around and say that he's the only one who will love her despite them.

He'll make her feel crazy, and then call her crazy.

A relationship this destructive isn't worth being in, but when you're in it, leaving feels impossible.

It's hard to wrap your brain around the idea that someone out there will love you any better. You think that this is the best you're going to get, so why leave?

Well, it's not about finding someone else to replace the awful guy you're with now. It's not about getting into another relationship at all.

It's about showing yourself the love you deserve.

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Yes, you deserve someone who will fight for you. You deserve someone who will be there for you. You deserve someone who will support your dreams. You deserve someone who will love you exactly the way you are.

And while this person may exist somewhere out there in the universe, there is someone else who can give you all that you need who's been there all along. 

You. 

So start showing yourself some love and appreciation and get out of that shitty relationship. Stop talking to that awful guy.

Show yourself you are worthy of love — and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

 

 

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