What It's REALLY Like To Have Sex With An Aries

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Aries Between The Sheets

Aries certainly love the chase.

When you hook up with an Aries, be prepared for a long, hard ride — literally and figuratively. As lovers, they are relentless and have great stamina. To them, sex is a quest and they go at it wholeheartedly with gusto until both of you are sore... but in a good way. They truly treat sex like a sport... and not a spectator sport.

Those born under the sign of Aries get off on challenge and the chase. Some may enjoy the pursuit and the conquest even more than the actual act.

As with everything else in their lives, the Aries lover knows what they want, when they want it, and they won't give up (willingly) until they get it. Pursuit is a kind of like foreplay for them. If prospective Aries partners are equally aroused by being desired so intensely, it's great. If not, this may cause huge problems. After all, there's a fine line between being pursued and stalked.


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Although Aries has the capacity to be very devoted and loving, don't expect hearts, flowers and romance from them, at least not in the traditional sense. For example, when prodded to say, “I love you,” a typical Arien response could be, "Of course, I love you... or else I wouldn't be here!" Get used to it. Aries are highly sensual, but very cut and dry about what they want and need.

Like the other barnyard animals in the zodiac (Capricorn and Taurus), Aries are lusty critters indeed, but moreso for Aries because they have the added bonus of being fueled by the "combustibles" characteristic of being a Fire Sign. Aries are most satiated physically when the sex is spontaneous and unrestricted. Wild and uninhibited is their preference.

Remember, as the Sun Sign's Evil Knievels, Aries are game for almost anything. They're known to say that they'll try anything at least once; twice if they really like it. Because of this, it's not uncommon for those born under the sign of Aries to be bisexual, even if it's just occasionally.

I love to tell the story of an Aries friend who found himself in a peep show booth (see, there's that wonderful Aries sense of adventure). When the screen went up, there was a beautiful, bountiful Latina on the other side, who revealed "a Johnson bigger than mine." Instead of being put off by this minor technicality, my buddy made the best of the situation, focused on the bits he liked, and came away with not only a climax, but a hilarious, typically Aries escapade to regale with.

As they do in everyday life, Aries likes to take control in bed. They have an uncanny ability for calling the shots, even when they're on the bottom.


An Aries man is perfectly content being ridden like a stallion, but he somehow manages to take charge with his movements and words even from below (i.e., grabbing his partner's buttocks, urging them on). Likewise, the Aries female is by no means submissive, even when in missionary position. Beneath her partner, she will move like a liquid fire, hips rising up to meet each thrust.

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Although Aries tend to be very aggressive in bed, it's never tinged with violence, just super-intense. Again, if you're expecting violins and rose-petals strewn on the sheets, you will be sadly disappointed. But if you crave a spontaneous encounter in an alley that leaves you with your legs trembling, then look no further.

For Aries, their heads are their erogenous zones. They love when you muss their hair or grab their face, and vice versa. It's not uncommon for males to grab a handful of ponytail going down the homestretch. They usually give fantastic head rubs and will be yours forever if you give one in return. And giving or getting "head," well... it goes without saying.

Aries also have extremely sensitive nipples, although many males might be reluctant to admit this for fear it will make them seem "feminine" and vulnerable. Big, strong Aries males have been known to get rock hard just from a little nipple play. And it's not uncommon for Aries ladies to have hyper-sensitive nipples, or to be able to climax solely from having their nipples sucked. It's a sure-fire way to get them moist, at the very least.

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Simply put, the Aries mate is also very aroused by their partner's sex organs, so be prepared to be put in the spotlight and have your hotspots worshipped.


Adventurous and outrageous, that's what you can expect from Aries between the sheets. Don't be surprised if they spray-paint their pubes bright green just for fun. Don't expect flowers, but do expect the ride of your life.


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