12 Things Guys Wish Women Knew About Giving Blow Jobs

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Take notes, ladies. You could learn a thing or two.

Let’s face it: Sex is a fundamental part of life and that makes blowjobs a vital part of life too.

Because oral sex is all about giving, it’s like saying “I love you” without actually saying it.

So, if you’re saying “I love you” to your guy this way, you’re going to want to do it the right way. Truth is, we don’t always do the best job.

We surveyed a group of almost 30 guys asking: “What do wish your partner understood about blowjobs?” Here’s what they had to say:

1. Take off the damn rings already!
“Rings are a great accessory, but please take them off while giving me a blowjob. They don’t NOT feel good. You’re scraping my dick.”  — Brandon, 28
“I wish more girls understood that rings don’t feel good when giving blowjobs. It sounds pretty obvious, but it’s not. I can’t even begin to tell you how many times my penis has been hurt by a ring! It’s embarrassing at this point.” — Jake, 25
“Stupid rings have got to go! I have too many stories of girls hurting my dick with rings. I truly honestly wish women understood that. It’s rare and nice when a woman just takes her rings off before a blowjob. Keeper!”  — Nic, 27

2. Get hands on!

“Please, please, please, please stop with the whole not using your hands thing! Unless you’re a BJ expert (which no offense most women aren’t) not using your hands just doesn’t feel good. You have hands for a reason, ladies! And giving BJ’s is part of that …”  — Marcelo, 27

3. It's better than sex (sometimes)

“That blowjobs are pretty much better than sex, when done correctly.”   — Levi, 22

4. Pause the making out

“The whole making out after you swallow … there’s toothpaste and mouthwash in my bathroom.” — Lenny, 25

“If I came in your mouth, please don’t kiss me. I don’t get why women think that’s sexy. It’s actually pretty gross.” — Sebastian, 24
5. No teeth. Like ever
“Stop it with the teeth. IDK where women heard it’s okay to use teeth during a blowjob. It’s not OK. I don’t know of any man who actually enjoys this.” Leo, 26
“Please for the love of God, stop biting my penis.”  — Bobby, 30

6. Make ME comfortable

“Get in a position that’s comfortable for me and feels good for me. Just because it’s more comfortable for you to lay there doesn’t mean it feels good for me.” — Roberto, 27

7. My eyes are up here

“I wish more women knew to look at you every once in awhile during a blowjob. I always hear girls say it’s embarrassing and uncomfortable but it’s really not. Definitely makes for a better experience. — Harry, 27

8. Share the love

“There’s nothing wrong with touching, sucking or licking my balls.” — Gil, 28

“My balls need some love too!” — Ben, 27

9. Slow ‘er down

“We don’t always like it when you go quickly. Most times going slow and taking your time is just as nice. Especially when a girl literally just attacks your dick. Calm down! — Brett, 27

“Slow and steady wins the race.” — Will, 29

“Sometimes women feel like they need to be super aggressive and go hard when that’s not the case at all. I like something more slow where I can feel and appreciate what’s going on.” — Harris, 26

11. Eye candy, please!​

“Get naked, or at least take your shirt off. It’s nice to have something to look at.” — Cam, 25

12. Be a trooper

“Swallowing never hurt.” — Mark, 27

“Spitters are quitters! Haha but seriously, it’s always nice when you swallow.” — Jeff, 24

 

12. Try to get into it

“If you’re not going to be into it don’t even bother giving it. It’s such a turn off when you notice she’s not enjoying it and forcing herself to do it. Not fun for either of us.” — Graham, 29

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