How To Have Fun In The Bedroom (When You Want DIFFERENT Things)


Don't let sexual frustration throw your happy relationship off balance.

Is there anything more frustrating in a relationship than having sexual needs that our out of sync with your partner's?

Sure, we expect that with time the frequency of sex declines. And, let's admit it —we also tend to get lazy and stick with a familiar routine of foreplay that gets the job done quickly. As a result, sex becomes predictable and ... boring.

Toss in everyday responsibilities —  kids, jobs, extended family  that take priority over quality time with your honey. It's all too easy for an ocean of sexual disconnect to flood between you, pushing intimacy further and further away. 

And don’t make the assumption that only men feel aggravated about not getting enough sex. Many women want more sex than their male partners do, we just don’t hear about it as much. Women tend to be less vocal about their frustrations and unmet sexual needs, taking his lack of interest as a reflection on their attractiveness or desirability.

Don’t let the problem of mismatched sexual desire stew!

Sadly, and predictably, when the two of you aren’t on the same page about your sexual needs, your entire relationship feels out of balance. Resentments fester, insecurities mount, tempers flare, and if you weren’t communicating about your needs before, then a healthy, calm conversation about the problem is more likely to turn into an awkward, emotion-fueled argument at this point.

So, what can you do to address the lack of sexual fulfillment in your relationship?

How do you get back the passion back that you once had? How can you communicate your needs and frustrations to your partner without trivializing their own? 

First, stop banging your head against the wall. Know that it IS possible to re-ginite a fun, passion-filled sex life again. Watch the video above to hear Dr. Pamela Denton's five powerful tips for ending your sexual frustration!

Once you hear her advice, check out her website for lots of additional helpful information to get this areas of your life fired up again!



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