What Guys REALLY Think When Women Touch Their Own Vaginas During Sex

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Wow! We had no idea!

Masturbation remains a topic of taboo with woman — and masturbating with your partner is definitely not up for discussion. But why not? When it comes to sex we’re perfectly OK with discussing size, timing and positions we love — but not masturbation (even though we’ve doing it way longer than we’ve been having sex.)

It’s such a shame too because masturbation is great for both your physical and mental health and a great way to learn about your sexuality. Many women can’t reach orgasm through penetration alone and are only able to do so when they masturbate. So why not do it during sex?!

Well, some women worry that touching themselves during sex might send the wrong message to their guy — that he’s not enough for her or that he’s not doing it right.

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So, I took it upon myself to find what men really think when their woman gives herself a hand during sex and whether they think it’s hot or an insult to their manhood. My informal poll of about two dozen guys found that most aren’t just OK with a woman masturbation during sex, they actually enjoy it. Only three guys thought it signaled they may be doing something wrong. (Note to these guys: You’re not.)

Here's what some of the guys had to say:

HECK YEAH!

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“Hey why not! More touching more feeling, more action!” — Kevin, 26

“I think it's her prerogative.” — Achal, 26

“I really like it and want it to happen more often. I’m doing something right and she’s into it.” — Andres, 27

“I think it is the best thing in the world. It’s better than waking up on Christmas morning to fresh made chocolate chip pancakes, a winning lotto ticket, and a brand new car.” — Marcelo, 26

“I think it's pretty cool.”  — Jake, 26

“I think it's interesting.” — Cameron, 24

“Whatever, she’s chosen to be naked with me.” — Brandon, 26

“I find it sexy.” — John, 26

“It’s not really a problem. It adds to the experience.” — Brian, 33

“Using my tools or hers?” — Justin, 30

“I don't care as long as I'm enjoying it and can get off. No I’m doing something right and she’s into it.”— Gus, 27

"Don’t care much at all, leaning positive"- Adam, 25 ​

“I don’t care what a chick does at all. Just don’t fuck up my rhythm. Funny or not, it’s true. Lay there, be loud, squirm, cry in pleasure, touch yourself, grab me, literally do anything you want, just don’t fuck it up" -Roberto, 30

"I'm totally in for a girl getting herself off. I'm trying my hardest too. The only thing that can make it weird is if I do, leave, and come back to them finishing off"- Nic, 26

UH, MAYBE?

“It depends. Some women may need that additional stimulation. Other women may simply like it or think that I like that she masturbates. On the other hand, there is always the possibility that I'm doing something wrong.  If the sex was in a one-night stand context, I wouldn't think of it, but in a relationship I would ask her why she does it.”— Andrew, 29

NO WAY!

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“I’d feel offended! She should do that on her own time” — Joshua, 28

“No WAY! I would want to know what I’m doing wrong! Why am I not pleasuring you the right way? Yes, she should do that on her own time” — Steve, 27

“Nope! Totally NOT OK. I’m doing something wrong and we should work on that. A complete turn off.” — Ben, 25

For the women out there who have doubts or are too shy to masturbate during sex, talk to your partner, as you can see: Most men actually love it!

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