One of the things that people who are single tend to believe is that something is wrong with them. Media put an idea out that if you are single than you are not wanted by anyone, but that’s not true at all. Despite what conventional love advice may say, being single doesn’t mean that there is something wrong with you — Or that you're going to be "forever alone".
In fact, there's a big possibility that our past relationships, fear of rejection and insecurities could be stopping us from finding lasting love. When YourTango Experts Senior VP Melanie Gorman and relationship experts Tammy Nelson, Debi Berndt, LiYana Silver and Robert Maldonado stress the importance of letting go of your inner relationship demons, we couldn't agree more. The problem isn't you — It's just that the way you see yourself could be getting in your way of finding love. Don't let your past keep you from meeting "the one"; you have to be proactive in your search. Don't let your past keep you from meeting "the one"; you have to be proactive in your search. In terms of looking for love, the single most important piece of advice to take into consideration is the fact that you control what you put out there. Don't ever let your insecurities keep you down!