In a moment of passion with your partner, have you ever had the urge to call out the name of someone else? Are you worried that this will hurt the trust in your relationship? If so, help is on the way.

In this video, sex therapist and YourTango Expert Dr. Lori Buckley of the Sinclair Institute says that your concern may be the thing that hurts your sex life. "You know what's worse than calling out the wrong name during sex? Worrying about it," she says. "Worrying while you're having sex is a definite desire and arousal killer." So what do you focus on instead? How do you let those nagging thoughts go? She has a few tips.

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