You know what you want in bed—a crazy new sex position, a toy, an erotic massage technique—and you crave it between the sheets but you feel a little awkward telling your partner. So how do you get what you want without having to ask?

Marriage therapist and YourTango Expert Moushumi Ghose says that your partner can never fulfill your deepest desires until you show him. "Even though we've heard it million times that our partners aren't mindreaders," she says, "There's still this certain side of us that thinks our partners should know what we're thinking and what we're feeling and what we like." She offers her own seductive tricks on how to show (and not tell) what you want between the sheets.

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