Does your husband have difficulty sustaining an erection? Are his feelings of shame and frustration interfering with your relationship? If so, help is on the way.
In this video, clinical psychologist, relationship coach and YourTango Expert Dr. Bruce Derman explains that there are things you can do to strengthen your bond in the face of this seemingly helpless situation. The trick is to break the pattern of him excluding you from the sexual relationship. That is, remind him that he is only half of the sexual equation. The way to do that, says Dr. Derman, is to "go to him and really insist" on being included.