Are you with a great guy but not sure where the relationship stands? Are unsure if you're his girlfriend? Do you want commitment but are unsure if asking will drive him away? If so, you're in luck.

In this video, dating coach, speaker and YourTango expert Annie Gleason bringing up the subject can be risky. She suggests to first decide what commitment means to you and then to think about how long you and your guy have actually been dating. You don't want to rush him into a commitment too soon.

Gleason says: "Tell him openly and honestly how you're feeling, how the relationship is affecting you. And allow him to tell you how's he's feeling!" She also says to remember that if you do bring it up, he may say no or need time to think. Being committed to one woman can be a big decision for a lot of men, and your man (no matter how awesome he is) may need some time to mull it over. You need to be open and honest with him about your feelings. Then let him do the same. This allows you two to openly talk about your feelings.

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