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How To Tell If Your Wife Is Cheating On You

Heartbreak, Sex

How to tell if she's cheating or just otherwise preoccupied.

Has your wife been extra preoccupied lately? Do you get the sense that there may be something going on "behind the scenes?" in your marriage. If so, you're in luck.

In this video, author, therapist and YourTango Expert Dr. Joe Kort explains that "We're all scared that we're vulnerable to being betrayed and hurt in our relationships." So, how can you tell if you're being cheated on? Well, you can't, unless you catch her, or she comes out and tells you. But, according to Joe, she's unlikely to tell you unless you make room for that kind of honesty in your relationship. 

Want to learn more? Check out the video above.


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