Am I Wrong To Like Sex With Married Men?
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Yes, any woman that likes to have sex with married men besides the one she is married too is dead a.. wrong. But if there weren't married men willing to sleep with her then she wouldn't be able to satisfy her pleasure. Society wants to crucify this woman for having these feelings but what about the men engaging in the sex with her!!!!! She may be hurting other women by sleeping with their husbands but it is the husbands that have the moral obligation to their families and their wives. Don't get it wrong, I am truly appauled by this woman's pleasure of sleeping with married men but at least she is honest and upfront about her bulls.... Ladies, just watch your husbands and keep them away from her.
She needs not to be crucified for expressing her feelings. How many women can take such boldness to tell how they feel about their sex life. However, it is grossly unideal for her to sleep with a married man. the word married makes it fearful and a dreadful thing to do.
hope she finds help, cause she really needs one
I'm sorry it does. The guy is wrong. And "you are taking the man away from his wife". That's so messed up. Get your own sausage and leave that one aloooone! A man that its all your own is way hotter then a guy who boinks you for the best of both worlds(loser man: devoted wife AND whore...awesome!) Please don't do it. Your body was made a certain way,to have someone and to keep them.
A lady has the make up of looking for a permanent mate!
Thanks dude(man in the video) for keeping it realistic. I'm glad you were stern and upset as well. Gives me hope that I can find a male I can care about someday... ;-)
being with a married man or woman, is wrong, even worst when there are children in the picture. But sometimes people are not happy with the person they are married to, and they fill trapped, and its not fair to keep someone unhappy cause they are in a unhappy marriage, or relationship, thats selfish of the person who they are commited to.
It's safe in the sense that he's not going to want to move in with you. I think sometimes a married man is attractive to women precisely because he's unavailable. They don't really want a relationship that is going to move on to something else. I'm not sure mistresses even realize this themselves and they may end up wishing for something more later and being hurt. And many mistresses are looking for something that will last.
Hmmm. I suppose morals are subjective. But you just asking the question tells me that you pretty much know that it's wrong for you. I've been on both sides here -- and although being the mistress can be hot and seemingly powerful -- it's usually ends in a lot of drama, and not in your favor. On the flip side, the side of the wife, this type of betrayal is devastating. Had I known what kind of devastation it can cause for another human being, I would have NEVER been pulled into an affair with a married man.
Love your self first,when you don't love yourself you are more likely to invole yourself with these types of situation.Because nothing ever comes out of it when you invole yourself with someone who has someone ,they will never leave the person that they are with.You will be just a douche bag for them ,somewhere to relief themselves on.
I had an affair with a married man I met through work he took me away for the weekend and his wife called the hotel room in the morning when we were in bed together I felt so guilty, but I had already made my decision when I got involved with him. So I did not say anything when he was on the phone with her.
Never again will I get involved with someone who is married its not worth it!
dam that iz a dam shame ya cant get one fo' ya self
only a tru hoe wil say that s**t iiight
neva dha just think as someone ya luv and give ya heart to just turned around and f****d someone
this shouldn't even be a dam topic
You know, it's hard to respect an opinion that is full of obscenities, poor grammar, no punctuation, and a spelling ability that is matched only by a 4-year-old on the low-end of their language skills. Add to it a relationship title of "complicated" and the credibility goes through the floor.
To dumb it down: Use words other than "whore", "slut", "n****r", "bastard", etc. Learn to spell. Learn to use full sentences. And open your mind to how and why the other side of the argument sees things before reviling it as "evil." You can't argue either side unless you fully know both before forming an opinion.
no only because it is natural to feel that way. what is wrong is if you act on that and get somewhere with him in any relationship way sexual or non
want a challeng try ryting down 69 places to have sex and them doin them all
i would be great if every community had a vast bottomless hole in it like in the movie 300... and instead of saying THIS IS SPARTA... married women could yell THATS MY HUSBAND (and any extra profanities) and push the disgusting whores into it :)
We should eliminate marital infidelity. The easiest way to do that would be to abolish marrige.
Don't blame the institution for the people entering it without any real understanding of what it means to be in a long term relationship. No one is forced to get married...at least not in this country. If a person is going to cheat then they are going to cheat...doesn't mean that its going to feel different if you have just been living together for 15 years instead of married together for 15 years. Likewise, a person who enjoys the challenge of stealing someone from any type of long term relationship, married or other, is still going to want the same thing because its all about that person and the challenge.
shouldn't this questios be ovious. Why is yourtango wasting time answering these kind of questions?
good point malditos. and i agree with you 100%. but lets admit...there are alot of stupid people in the world who need to hear this advice...lol
WTF kind of question is this????? And what the hell does Matt mean "it's not wrong"???
Morally wrong though mind you. Let's forget about her for a second, think about the bigger picture? Just selfish.
I hate it when a woman has a relationship with a married man. It makes me sick to think about the woman that the man is married to not knowing that her husband is a cheating bastard. How would it turn her on to sleep with a married man? It's cheap and wouldn't she just feel used, and basically like a giant whore?
Why focus on just her, sloweyo? It takes 2 to tango. The cheating husband is a douche too. If you ask me, they deserve each other.
Apparently it makes her feel like she's pwned his wife by "stealing" her man. Seriously though, as soon as a guy is taken, he becomes 150% more attractive to the female community. This is a well-known fact! Personally I think any woman that tries to steal a married man is a traitor to womankind and should be shunned by all her sisters! Death to the green-eyed monster!!!
lol everybody who commented thinks shes a whore and they dont even know the person lol
