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Help! I'm In Love With A Drunk


What to do when the one you love can't put down the booze.

Are you dating or married to someone who has a problem with alcohol or substance abuse? Are you tired of the negative affects this has had on your relationship and waiting for the one you love to change?

In this video, Psychotherapist, Author and YourTango Expert Julie Orlov helps a reader whose husband is a high-functioning alcoholic. As Julie points out, giving up hope in someone is never an easy thing to do, especially when you love the person. There are a few important things you should consider before deciding how to handle the situation.

Want to learn more? Check out the video above.



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