In this video, Counselor/Therapist, Social Worker and YourTango Expert Sherry Amatenstein answers a reader who wants to know the most valuable piece of advice for singles looking for love today.

While Sherry's counseling doesn't involve a "find love in 90 days" guarantee, she does say that you will find love as soon as you start loving yourself and realize exactly why you want a partner in life. But, if your heart is always rising and falling with the latest person you're pursuing, heed Sherry's advice and take a step back. 

There's plenty more important gems where that came from, so watch the video above to hear them all!

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