Sometimes when it comes to dating, you wish you had all the answers on how to find the exact kind of relationship you're looking for. Of course, if you did, you'd be the most sought-after expert in the world. But, isn't there just one piece of valuable advice that all single women should be armed with when they're out and about looking for love

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In this video, Counselor/Therapist, Social Worker and YourTango Expert Sherry Amatenstein answers a reader who wants to know the most valuable piece of advice for singles looking for love today. While Sherry's counseling doesn't involve a "find love in 90 days" guarantee, she does say that you will find love as soon as you start loving yourself and realize exactly why you want a partner in life. But, if your heart is always rising and falling with the latest person you're pursuing, heed Sherry's advice and take a step back. 

There's plenty more important gems where that came from, so watch the video above to hear them all from Sherry!

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