Are you dreaming, or did your husband just really ask you if you would have a threesome with him and another woman?
In order to bring you both back down to reality, you need to tread lightly. In this video, Counselor/Therapist and YourTango expert, Carin Goldstein offers her advice on how to deal with such a proposition. Your man may think "three's company" is a fun way to spice up your sex life, but as Carin will tell you, it brings up a much more serious issue... that involves only two of you.

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