Do you buy your affairs gifts??

As far as I can see, there are only two reasons to buy gifts for
someone you are having an affair with: 1. to thank the person you are cheating with
for agreeing to perform unspeakable and in-human sex acts, or 2. to keep
the person you are having an affair with quiet.

But seriously… I was serious. Buying gifts, particularly
gifts that are clear romantic tokens of affection insinuate that you
have real feelings for the person you are bestowing them upon. Unless
you mean business and you are seriously considering ending your marriage
or relationship to take up with this other man or other woman full
time, I highly caution against lavishing gifts onto the person you are
having an affair with. You will be sending serious mixed messages, while
at the same time giving this other person an nice little arsenal of
evidence against you in the future should the sh*t hit the fan with your
spouse, girlfriend or boyfriend.

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While I can understand the temptation to purchase things like that
kinky lingerie that your wife would never agree to wear so that you can
enjoy your cheating experience full throttle, the risks outweigh the
benefits. cheating wives are not as likely to buy gifts for an affair, and are in all
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