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It's not news that sexual fluidity has been working its way into the mainstream. We all know the girl who experimented in college and then went back to guys, or the middle-aged woman who left her husband for some turquoise artisan in Taos named Deborah.

Both seem to be examples of the stronger sexual preference winning out in the end. But more and more, it's becoming acceptable for women to "hop the fence"—that is, to make the occasional gender switch-up in casual sex and in long-term relationships. I know, 'cause I'm one of 'em.

Although I'd always privately identified as bisexual, I'd only dated boys before I met a girl I had instant chemistry with. We had an amazing, insanely sexy couple of months, but we wanted different things out of a partner, and things fizzled in the natural way romantic relationships of either persuasion do. Lemondrop: 10 Things Guys Don't Get About Women

The next person I dated happened to be a guy, and it was wildly irritating when my parents and friends—who had been supportive of my dating a girl, if dubious—acted vindicated. I wasn't bisexual, they thought—I was just going through a phase. When I dated another girl a year later, they were more respectful of the fact that it was an actual relationship. This, apparently, was how it was going to be. Lemondrop: How To Talk Sex With Your Mom

Read the rest on Lemondrop. 

• I Stopped Dating Men And Started Dating Women
• When Straight Women Turn Gay
• Why A Lesbian Club Made Me Consider Switching Team

Written by Beth Brennan for Lemondrop.