Dating: What Does 'I Have A Lot Going On' Even Mean?


Is he still interested in you if he uses this phrase? Dr. Diana Kirschner gives her advice.

Is the guy your dating being misleading? When you ask for the truth, does he avoid the question and instead leave you with some version of, ‘I have a lot going on right now’?

Stop overthinking! Love and dating expert Dr. Diana Kirschner from is here to help, and the answer is simple. “It means he’s not into you!” Dr. Kirschner asserts. While he may not be lying (we all get busy), if he was truly interested in you he would be more likely to put some things aside to pursue a relationship.

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