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The Truth about Virgins

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The Truth about Virgins

I'm sure most of you have seen the movie "The 40 Year Old Virgin".Well, i haven't but I can guess what it's about.I'm not going to talk about virgins who are in a mid-life crisis.I'm going to talk about virgins of the younger generation.This is the 21st century and on of the most common issues in our world is underage sex...yes, we all know it's happening.However, this isn't about having sex, it's about abstinence.There are those who choose not to have sex until marriage, those who cannot have sex due to emotional and physical barriers, and those morons who choose never to have sex at all.We're going to discuss the first group.Let's begin by stating the advantages of being a virgin.1. No risk of STD's mind you, if you;re not having intercourse but are still engaging in other forms of sex such as oral sex without protection there is a chance of catching an STD.2.Almost zero risk of being labelled as a slut/manwhore unless the mean kids at your school/college spread a nasty rumour about you.3.You don't have to talk to your parents about your sex life...cause it doesn't exist duh.4. Your chances of going to heaven are greatly increased some religions forbid sex before marriage.Choosing to keep one's virginity is a lofty decision and requires immense willpower, especially dusring these times where teenagers are just about itching to 'get it on'...blame those darn hormones.I have a tremendous amount of respect for these guys...you guys are doing what Britney failed to do.There really is a sort of ethereal beauty about having sex for the first time with your husband/wife...the person you're supposed to spend you life with.I think it forms a special bond that cannot be achieved otherwise.Also you guys won't have the whole regretting your first time moment when you realise that doing it with the guy named Jaredno offence to the Jared's of the world in the bacjkseat of his dad's beat up truck really wasn't the best way to commemorate your first time.I've read about some hilarious stories about some girls' experiences about their first time.Cracked me up.While those stories are fun to laugh at, i wouldn't wanna experience them.I'm a hopeless romantic at heart and while my views on some matters are completely unorthodox i do think that one's first time should be absolutely special...a moment that you'll look back on with fondness...a time that still makes you blush.Having sex for the first time is a big issue for most people, especially us girls.You have to trust the other person with your body completely and that kind of trust cannot be achieved easily.Which is why it's extremely stupid not to mention retarded to just jump in and start humping the first guy you see because you get horny.Sometimes a few idiots use the fact that a girl/guy is a virgin to make fun of that individual by implying that he/she hasn't had the opportunity to lose it etc.etc.Well, you guys are pathetic.I am an 18 year old virgin...no i don't intend to stay a virgin till the day i get married.But i do intend to maintain my status until i meet a guy who's right for me.I want to 'make love'..not have sex for my first time because for me, sex is about expressing love, not about...well...sex.I know some of you will find this cheesy and corny but it is what it is.To each his own.The only disadvantage of not having sex is...well....not having sex and the advantages far outweigh the disadvantages..at least according to me.I'm not saying you have to abstain until marriage