Why do men seem to have a hard-wired disdain for generous servings of foreplay?
Women have probably internally wondered for centuries why men devour sex like a two-bite dollar meal instead of savoring like a five-course feast. Let's be honest, more times than not, a metaphorical bill has arrived before most women have even had a chance to finish buttering the bread.
These are all pretty valid questions.
Hitchedmag.com tackled this aged old sexual dilemma recently. Mostly, sexologist Dr. Brian Parker attempts to defend his gender as Dr. Trina Read claims men just want to "pop off a couple of orgasms" and hit the hay.
(We couldn't have said it better ourselves.)
Below are Dr. Brian Parker's explanations and tips to get your fella more interested in tasting all the appetizers before paying the check:
1.) Maybe he's just trying to be a manly man: "At a very young age boys are taught that things like hugging, kissing and touching are feminine," says Dr. Parker. "And, God forbid, any Wrangler wearin’, meat eatin’ man with a shed full of tools seems ‘girly.’"
2.) Men are embarrassingly clueless: "Truth is, most men don’t know diddly squat about the female body’s erogenous zones and her sexual response cycle," he says. "So gals, you can simply ask your man directly what he likes to give and receive during foreplay. Then you can share your response. And if you can’t bare to tell him, show him. Guide his hands over your "hot" spots showing him just how you like to be touched."
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