While we know our society is ripe with stereotypes, we just hope for a day when a blogger like Funky Brown Chick won't have to write a list titled How To Date A Black Woman to quiet all those who incessantly ask her. Last time we checked, a black woman was still a woman.
We're guessing the men who ask this probably don't have much of a clue with any race. (But that's just a guess.)
As much as we wish nationality wasn't such an issue in dating, you'd be shocked how often we hear this type of thing, too. Even in passing. And while this is specifically geared toward black women, you could certainly cut and paste any race that isn't yours into these tips. That is, if you're feeling uneasy...
Get your pencils ready folks, number 1's a doozy:
1.) ASK HER OUT: "If you’ve never dated a black woman before and you’d like to ask someone out, simply say something like: “Hey, are you free on Friday? Maybe we could be grab coffee or drinks or something?” Yep, my sweeties, it’s that easy." Touché! Attracted to a woman? Ask her out. How novel. Got that fellas?
2.) DON'T PRETEND YOU'RE BLACK: This one's embarrassing, but some poor misguided folks have dated Funky Brown Chick and morphed into a walking, talking Black Appreciation Parade. Don't say dorky things like “Black women have more flava” or bust into a freestyle rap.
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