Seeking Your Soulmate? Use The Secret
Attract love and become soulmate-ready through intentional thoughts and actions.
Arielle Ford discusses her book The Soulmate Secret, which helps you find the love of your life using the law of attraction. Vision boards, positive thinking and lists help to keep your mind where your heart is. Watch for tips on how to become soulmate-ready!
Discussion
I do believe one attracts what he thinks. Last Dec. I made a vision board for the first time. I was really craving some fun in the sun so I pasted pix of the beach all over my board as well as my bedroom, using calendars and such of tropical scenes. Amazingly, the following Feb. I was invited on my first cruise. I'm leaving in Aug for a 7 day cruise out of Miami. I also posted pix of money all over my board and I have recieved quite a few price breaks on things here and there but, the best part is my cruise comes at no cost to me. I meditate on all of the things that I have added to my board since then.
The original video 'The Secret' does make one think about expressing gratitude for what one has in life, the power of attraction, and the benefits of positive visualization. However, this short video distorts the intention or meaning of The Secret---an image board of your ideal mate is just too icky. Some notions are best just remaining a secret and by the way- why cut up a perfectly good Victoria Secret catalogue? LOL
But...but...that's like some seriously creepy stuff. Imagine if your "soul mate" sees that vision board? Awkward? I think so. But I don't believe in soul mates anyway, so w/e.
lol wow thats a little creepy. like building posters and shrines thats so obsessive and scarey haha.
I'll never give up sleeping in my old, ragged t-shirt; I don't care how good the sex is.
Or believe in the f****d up Secret theory. I still don't understand that s**t. What if the boyfriend or girlfriend found out this secret? LOL.
oh.my.gods.
Who let the eHarmony princesses in?
I'm clearly in the wrong section of the web site ...
My Rules in browsing dating profiles:
1. Click "Next" if you see the word "soulmate" no matter what else she says, unless she can use the word ironically.
2. Same goes for anyone using the phrase "The One."
Works for me.
Actually, I already used the Secret on Valentine's Day. It involved George Clooney and everlasting love. Didn't work...
Check it out on my blog - http://tartandsoul.com/2009/02/08/a-valentines-wisher-demand/
-blink- with all of the guys I've befriended (and I'm one of those girls that's one of the guys) I can tell you: Long distance relationships are just made for guys to lie. One guy kissed another girl and swore to me he'd tell his girlfriend and didn't (so I did) and another one was ALL over this other girl (and I told his girlfriend too. He then came to me and said, you aren't my friend any longer.) -shrug-
But I really like the advice in this vid (especially the one about casual sex and such.)
i think this is really cool advice and i've done everything except the vision board. Sometimes i'll pray over pictures of couples i pick out from magazines. but i've never thought to put them up on a board.. really good advice in this vid :)
I like this one, its pretty good advise... and i dunno what they are talking about with liking long distance relationships in the comment below... sure long distance relationships have some really good highs when you see the person after not seeing them for a while, but during that time of not seeing them, which could be a while, its low. and there's more low than high in that situation which sucks big time
proof that guys are smarter than girls?
they know there is no such thing as the "one"
Ummm... not everyone wants the same things, as stated for bullet point #2 about geography. There's something romantic about having a long distance romance, where you are always excited and happy to see one another. Some of us are secure and excited about living apart from our partners.
I agree that being away from one another can be romantic, but how can you be excited about being away from someone you love so much? It just doesn't make any sense.
Well, when I was in my 20's I felt that way. But now I'm in my 40's and have a family and business that keeps me very inspired and busy, so when I get to see my manfriend, it's "O, ya" time! He's my dessert. I don't need him, but I sure do love his company when I'm ready for him.
Its the things you don't expect and that aren't on your "list" that make you fall in love with someone. Don't limit yourself to dating a list, and don't marry someone because they fit your list. That just simply isn't love, and thats not secret.
completely agreed
that's basically the problem,we are taught and lead to being with people that match well with us,and that seem like good prospects,but i think it's more about what you feel...how you fit together,the chemestry...yup yup. Still is fun doing something different than the usual though,just fun. :P
that's a LOT of videos in a short time.
this one's nice..
i like the first two on the list. but other than that.. i rater not change myself and rather not have a pre-set immage of who i want.
rather.. know who you DON'T want. you have more options that way.
the law of atraction focuses on what you want,because whenyou say youdo not want something,usually,one way or another,you get it. Just give energies to what you want and that's that. ;)
