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Are You Sexually Repelled by Your Partner? [EXPERT]

Are You Sexually Repelled by Your Partner? [EXPERT]

Discover a common underlying cause of a lack of sexuality in committed relationships.

Over the many years that I have been working with couples, certain issues have emerged over and over. One of the most common issues for women is: "I am not turned on to my partner. I love him, but I just can't bring myself to make love with him. The thought of it is repelling to me."

Are You Facebooking Your Way to an Affair?

Are You Facebooking Your Way to an Affair?

You may be headed for infidelity and not even realize it!

If it feels like social networking sites, like Facebook and Twitter, are ruining your relationship, you're not alone. New technology brings greater ease in communication and connecting. There are no borders and few boundaries. A person on one side of the world can have a very intimate and private interaction with someone on the other side of the world via the web. Flirting, jealousy, infidelity, arguments and breakups can all revolve around social networking.

The One, Most Important Thing to Know About Relationships

The One, Most Important Thing to Know About Relationships

The one discovery that changed my entire perspective on relationships for myself and my clients!

I've been curious about people and relationships for as long as I can remember. I've asked many questions, probably annoyed many with them all. My nickname in High School was WHY! That should give you some idea. What makes people come together? What makes some stick and others part? Why did the very thing that drove my mother crazy about my father make my step-mother chuckle? Relationships once seemed to be so tricky to me. No surprise that I wound up in a graduate program studying relationship counseling! We teach what we need/want to learn most!

Want A Happy Relationship? [Expert]

Want A Happy Relationship? [Expert]

5 Things To Look For In A Partner And In Yourself

Why are we so bad for each other? Have you ever wondered why relationships you've gotten into have ended so badly? Conversely, perhaps the opposite is true; relationships ends with no fanfare, fading away without a whimper. Wish you could evaluate a new prospect earlier in the dating cycle and cut your losses and run if it doesn't look good? Here are a few things to look for in anyone you date:

5 Reasons Why You Should Experiment With Sex Toys [EXPERT]
Do you enjoy playing with toys in the bedroom?

5 Reasons Why You Should Experiment With Sex Toys [EXPERT]

Sex toys aren't only for single folks anymore ...

Are you wondering if there is a place for sex toys in a healthy, monogamous relationship? Here are the top five ways sex toys can enhance your sex life.

10 Ways To Teach Your Children The Art Of Relationships [EXPERT]
Your relationship with your child is the most powerful mechanism from which to teach.

10 Ways To Teach Your Children The Art Of Relationships [EXPERT]

Learn how to teach your children the art of relationships.

Whether you believe you are a good role model or not from which to follow, there are some things you can do to help your children learn how to navigate their own relationships. Your relationship with your child is the most important teaching tool. Here are 10 things you can do to help your children learn the art of relationships.

How Threat Emotions Cause Us To Misread Our Partner

How Threat Emotions Cause Us To Misread Our Partner

The Mindset of Anxiety and Anger

Just how well do we read our intimate partners? As long as we’re composed, we’re generally pretty good at it. But whenever our threat emotions (i.e. anxiety and anger) are triggered, accuracy goes right out the window. Emotion-driven misinterpretations spell trouble for relationships. They lead to escalating accusations, disappearing trust and constricting hearts. If only we could recognize how emotions shape perceptions, we could restore close connections with our partner. That’s the aim of this primer.

10 Ways To Tell If Your Marriage Is Over [EXPERT]
Has your marriage hit a dead end?

10 Ways To Tell If Your Marriage Is Over [EXPERT]

Don't let divorce catch you off-guard!

Despite divorce being so common, many couples are caught off guard when it actually happens to them. They believe that if they just begin to love one another again, everything will turn out fine. This myth, however, lulls them into missing the warning signs that suggest that their marriage is in trouble.

What's on Your Relationship Bucket List?

What's on Your Relationship Bucket List?

Alex was badly shaken up when one of her co-workers unexpectedly lost her husband in a freak accident. She feels sad for the other woman's loss and is now re-evaluating her own relationship too. Watching the grief and regret that her co-worker is struggling with has put into perspective the petty disagreements and hard feelings that are between Alex and her live-in boyfriend.