oral sex
Fresh breath for your lady parts, designed to give you confidence and keep him begging for more!
Vagina's have lips, sometimes they have teeth. They can burp, too, and every once in a while they need a mint.
A vagina mint! Say it aloud three times... it just kind of rolls off your tongue, doesn't it? But why would you ever want one?
For good morning kisses on your mouth down south, and other times when you're feeling less than fresh? For improving your man's clarity, focus and stamina? And, perhaps, just for giggles?
According to lovetolinger.com's research, 72 percent of women will admit they are somewhat self-conscious about either their scent or flavor. Ninety-five percent of … Read More
The sex is bad, attempts to fix it aren't working, what should you do?
RH Reality Check (the website for "information and analysis for reproductive health") recently received the following letter from a reader named Jessica:
My boyfriend does not satisfy me sexually. He only lasts about ten minutes, he won't rub my clit because he doesn't want bodily fluids on his hand and he won't eat me out because he thinks it's nasty, but he thinks that I should give him head. We have been together two years and now it is really affecting me. What can I do?
The RH Reality Check advisor, Heather Corinna, tries her best to support Jessica by saying … Read More
Attractive people earn more, the new third base and dating his family.
It's time for links again. I grab the best that the web has to offer, tell you what it's about and YOU choose if you'd like to give it a read. That's service.
According to Lemondrop, Tufts University has had it up to "HERE" (your lofted dorm bed) with inconsiderate, horny roommates. The new university rule is no sex if the roommate is in the room. Who hasn't been on one end or the other of an impassioned plea to, "give me the room, just for tonight, do me a solid"?
The Frisky discusses a woman who writes about her … Read More
Tips and tricks from the co-founder of the sex shop Babeland.
You finally worked up the nerve to buy a vibrator.
Now comes the big hurdle: introducing your fella to the new battery-operated man in your life. Yes that's right—just because you have the real thing at home doesn't mean the two of you can't shake up your sex life with a toy. We asked Claire Cavanah, co-founder of sex shop Babeland, for tips on working a vibrator into your twosome. "Adding a little stimulation during intercourse can bring each of you to new heights." Lemondrop: How To Buy Your First Toy
Popping the Question
Of course, you may have reservations about asking … Read More
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"What do men like about oral sex? I'm willing to put in the work when it comes to giving a blow job but it would be so helpful if someone could tell me what exactly men like." -Kataroo
We know men love sex, and especially oral sex. But what's so great about third base? Men and women from the YourTango community weigh in with advice, tips and insights.
To read what others had to say or to give your own advice, go here: What Do Men Like About Oral Sex?
Oral pleasure tips from expert and "The Sex Bible" author Susan Crain Bakos.
Being an oral goddess may not be your top priority, but it's a pretty handy (or, er, mouthy) skill to have. After all, who doesn't want to be the kind of gal whose mere memory can bring a wistful smile to any ex's face? And if that doesn't convince you to upgrade your oral game, consider the benefits of potential reciprocity.
Check out these expert tips from research sexologist, sex journalist, Lemondrop contributor and The Sex Bible author Susan Crain Bakos. Going dowwwwwwwwwwn ...
Putting On the Condom
If this isn't your long-term guy, he should be wearing a condom. And while he … Read More
How to distinguish between having sex and messing around. Definitions vary.
What constitutes sex and what doesn't? Fifteen years after Lewinskygate you'd think we'd all have it figured out, but it seems we don't. Teenagers who haven't had intercourse are having oral sex and calling themselves virgins. Heterosexual couples who are in the early throes of a relationship say they still haven't gone all the way even if they've heavily petted. And average Americans are still writing letters like this one to Savage Love:
My wife and I were recently regaling each other with anecdotes from our past, and she easily had the most interesting story: It seems that when … Read More
Believe it or not, some men are just not into oral intimacy.
Blow jobs are overrated. There. I said it. I know men who would fight a grizzly bear with a spork for a little mouth love. I also know women who guard their oral sexing technique the way a pharmaceutical company protects its most precious patents. But I'm just not a dude who loves blow jobs. I'm an active guy, when it comes to being intimate with a woman, and laying back and letting her go down on me has always felt passive to me. Disconnected. As if I could lean back and read The Economist or slurp a bowl … Read More
The Venus Butterfly: surefire orgasm or urban legend? Sexologist Susan Quilliam investigates.
The Venus Butterfly. It made its debut on TV legal drama LA Law, when— during the 1986 Thanksgiving episode—script writers Steven Bochco and Terry Louise Fisher referred to a mysterious sex technique that guarantees a woman endless, repeated climaxes. The day after Thanksgiving the media was buzzing with talk of the trick, and every loving couple across the nation was wondering how to do it. But hey, it's just an urban myth, right?
Maybe... maybe not. Ever since that fateful day, sexologists, therapists and writers have made attempted to define this holy grail of sex acts. So does it exist? … Read More
It turns out that men do have nuance. Whoda thunk it?
You know that old chestnut about men being pretty simple? It turns out that it's not so true. They (men) like to eat, poop, sex, sleep and watch sporting events (in an ideal world, all at the same time). But not all men like all of those thing (or any for that matter). Go figs, right?
Scouring the interwebs the last day or so, I've discovered that men can't be totally pigeon-holed into anything regarding preferences or even gender roles. It's a brave, new, scary world out there.
Here are six myths about men that the web has recently dispelled:
Men don't … Read More