I've never been afraid to ask for what I want in bed. I guess because during my teenage years I figured out I was/am a perv and I just owned it. But in my decade-plus of hooking up with dudes, I’ve come to see being clear about what I want is a bit rare: Guys have told me other women become self-conscious when asking for something risqué or kinky. The Frisky: What Are Your Secret Turn-Ons?

So, I'm going to help you out, boys. Here are some things your lady might want, but she's too self-conscious to ask for. Don't … Read More

Sure, Valentine's Day has passed and the Hallmark cards and heart-shaped balloons are now in the half-off bin, but if you're in a relationship, there's no reason to slack off on showing you care the other 364 days of the year. Still, saying "I love you" doesn't always come easy or convey the depth of feeling as much as simple actions do. After the jump, 34 ways to tell her "I love you" without actually saying it. (And gals, plenty of these can apply in reverse!) The Frisky: Could You Ever Get Past Hearing "I Don't Love You Anymore?"

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A story of dubious legitimacy about a teenager without a vagina who became pregnant after swallowing semen and then getting knifed in the gut is making the rounds on the internet, after being scrounged up in a decades-old British Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology. Lemondrop: The Scary New Depths of Cosmetic Surgery

Apparently the 15-year-old's ex came in and attacked the girl and her boyfriend at work shortly after the girl performed fellatio. Why was a 15-year-old giving her BF a BJ at her place of work? Because she didn't have a hoo-hoo—just a small dent … Read More

As sex and relationship experts, we recently hosted a 10-episode UK television show called "SEX: How to Do Everything," which is now finally available in the States on DVD (perfect for Valentine's Day)! The series is chock-full of tips and techniques, from the ordinary to the super scandalous. Here are 10 of our favorite tidbits (but they're really just the tip of the show's iceberg!).

1. The 69 is kind of like communism: great in theory, but not always so equitable in practice.
2. You are what you ingest, whether that's pineapple and cinnamon … Read More
   

It's been awhile since we attended elementary school, but from everything we've heard, seen, and read—the youth of today is so much more savvy! They build web pages, learn algebra and start thinking about college applications all before they turn 13! Impressive!

Which is why a news item about dictionaries (of all things!) being removed from a string of Southern California schools due to a definition of oral sex was surprising. 10 Intimate Sex Tips From A Man

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It's Friday and that means it's time for the best of the web love and relationships category. Yep, I scoured the web so you didn't have to. Let's get it on.

First up, the crew over at The Frisky has a tale of revenge on a cheatin-ass man. This time around the scorned woman put up a photo of the man and his mistress in New York's Times Square. Here's the wrinkle, the mistress bought the billboard. Remember when girlfriends-on-the-side weren't so needy?

Lemondrop tells us that a guy-favorite sex act (the other guy-favorite sex act, no the … Read More

10 must-click love and relationship links: 

Nevada's Shady Lady brothel recently won approval of its plan to hire its first male prostitute for women. Read on to find out what employment as a male prostitute entails besides a lot of sex.  [TresSugar]

According to a study released by Yahoo in 2007, breakups skyrocket between December and Valentine's Day. Safeguard your love life by avoiding these 8 surefire ways of ruining a relationship. [CollegeCandy]

Decode a guy's personality based on how he eats and what he orders on a first date. [Divine Caroline]

What's the deal with saggy breasts and fake … Read More

Here are my resolutions for 2010: to go to Bikram yoga three days a week, to get in touch with friends I haven't seen in awhile, to pursue a new hobby (maybe photography), and to take two really awesome vacations. Oh, and I have a few sex resolutions too. Last year I vowed to give less blow jobs (achieved!), but 2010 is here, I'm back on the blowie train, and I'm ready to make a few new sexy vows for the next decade. After the jump are 25 sex resolutions—a few of them are mine, but I'm not telling which. … Read More

Vagina's have lips, sometimes they have teeth. They can burp, too, and every once in a while they need a mint.

A vagina mint! Say it aloud three times... it just kind of rolls off your tongue, doesn't it? But why would you ever want one?

For good morning kisses on your mouth down south, and other times when you're feeling less than fresh? For improving your man's clarity, focus and stamina? And, perhaps, just for giggles?

According to lovetolinger.com's research, 72 percent of women will admit they are somewhat self-conscious about either their scent or flavor. Ninety-five percent of … Read More

RH Reality Check (the website for "information and analysis for reproductive health") recently received the following letter from a reader named Jessica:

My boyfriend does not satisfy me sexually. He only lasts about ten minutes, he won't rub my clit because he doesn't want bodily fluids on his hand and he won't eat me out because he thinks it's nasty, but he thinks that I should give him head. We have been together two years and now it is really affecting me. What can I do?

The RH Reality Check advisor, Heather Corinna, tries her best to support Jessica by saying … Read More