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5 (More!) Sex Moves Women Love, But Are Afraid To Ask For
What are you too nervous to ask for in bed?

5 (More!) Sex Moves Women Love, But Are Afraid To Ask For

Ladies, it's time to ask for what you want in bed.

I've never been afraid to ask for what I want in bed. The idea that some women can't ask for what they want, or don't know what they want in the first place, is foreign to me. However, I'm well-aware that I may not be in the majority here. Guys have told me other women become self-conscious when asking for something risqué or kinky — and that's a crying shame.

5 Sex Moves Women Love, But Are Afraid To Ask For
What are you afraid to ask for in bed?

5 Sex Moves Women Love, But Are Afraid To Ask For

It's time to let go of your fear and ask for what you want sexually.

I've never been afraid to ask for what I want in bed. I guess because during my teenage years I figured out I was/am a perv and I just owned it. But in my decade-plus of hooking up with dudes, I've come to see being clear about what I want is a bit rare: Guys have told me other women become self-conscious when asking for something risqué or kinky.

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What's your sexual fetish?

30 Sexual Fetishes, Demystified

Happy International Fetish Day!

Happy International Fetish Day! Are you planning on kinking it up in celebration? I certainly hope so. Just in case you needed some ideas, let us review these 30 essential paraphilias. Just think about how much more fun sex ed would have been if we had lessons like this.

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"It's better to know it and not need it than to need it and not know it!"

Oral Sex 101: What You Need To Know [EXPERT]

What a man really wants out of oral pleasure.

If you don't like doing it, it leaves you in the position of finding the 2% of men who do not care anything about it. This is not a favorable position to be in. The odds are exceedingly against you. But keep in mind that it's always better to know what to do and not need it, than need it and not know what to do. Who knows? One day it may grow on you. (Pun intended.) Now, if you're ready to get your hands dirty, continue to read on.

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Have you ever had sex in an elevator?

50 Ways To Improve Your Sexual Connection Tonight

Sexy tips from Jamye Waxman, author of new book "Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight."

In celebration of my latest book, Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight, I've decided to round up 50 sexy or sex-filled things that you can do — easily. Well, depending on the kids and time, and without much prep, to help keep things cayenne-pepper hot in the sexy time department. And I want you to add to the list too, please!

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Would You Take Your Halloween Costume Into The Bedroom?

Why we need Halloween, I don't know. For me, every Thursday is "dress up like a trampy plumber" day.

What do bobbing for apples and excessive skin have in common? Halloween. Yes, one of the oldest holidays, which was once about bonfires and costumes to ward off the dead, has evolved into something else: a time to get your slut on — yes, I just wrote that.

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When It Comes To Sex, Do You Like Lights On Or Off?

Most Americans turn the lights off during sex. What are we afraid of?

Lights on or off? Adult toy company Adam & Eve recently conducted a survey to find out. They asked 1,000 American adults (age 18 and up) how they like their lighting during sex.

Americans Love To Talk Dirty

Americans Love To Talk Dirty

80 percent of us indulge in word play during sex.

When it comes to getting frisky between the sheets, do you spice up the action by letting some naughty words slip out? If not, you may want to join the legions of Americans who are using dirty talk to mix things up in the bedroom.

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Is Angelina Jolie A Kinky, Sex Toy-Loving Freak In Bed?

You betcha! The mother of six apparently makes Brad Pitt do things he never thought he would.

We knew Angelina Jolie was a bit of a freak when we saw her kissing her brother on the red carpet and wearing a vile of Billy Bob Thornton'"s blood around her neck. But that was the "old" Angie. The "new" Angie has been playing the role of calm, cool and collected mother of six for the past several years. But, we all suspect that her old inner freak must be itching to come out from time to time. And what better place to unleash it than when in the bedroom with Brad Pitt?

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What Are The Kinkiest Cities In The U.S.?

San Francisco and New York made the list—but so did Roselawn, Indiana.

America The Kinky? Thanks to Craigslist ads and online dating profiles, AlterNet has singled out where in the U.S. people like to spice things up.

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New Jersey Woman Injured While Having Cemetery Sex

Outdoor sex is one thing, but getting frisky in a graveyard?

Thanks to Snooki, JWoW, The Situation and the rest of the Jersey Shore crew, we know that life in the Garden State can get pretty wild, especially when it comes to “getting it in.” But never did we ever expect to hear that two NJ residents would take getting down and dirty to a whole new locale: the graveyard.