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Behind the fetish: How BDSM makes one woman feel like a virgin.
I thought I'd had "rough sex" before; I'd been spanked on my butt plenty of times, had my hair pulled, even been caned once while strung up with my hands over my head. That hurt, and I cried, and I liked it, because I'm submissive like that, but it was just a one-time thing. I'd had plenty of encounters with talking dirty, spinning all sorts of nasty fantasies, where, most of the time, I was on the receiving end of some very hot epithets. But I'd never wanted to be choked until I got together with the … Read More
It's all fun and games until someone gets shot in the chest.
There's nothing wrong with a hot-n-heavy game of dirty cowboy. And according to Deborah Yvette Parker, that's all she and her commonlaw husband, Broderick Craig Crachian, were partaking in when he died of an accidental gunshot wound to the chest. I Wanna Be A Cowboy (& You Can Be My Cowgirl)
Describing her as "extremely distraught," Parker's court-appointed attorney, Murray Newman, explained to the Houston Chronicle that: "She loves him, and this is just a terrible accident. My understanding is she was one hundred percent cooperative with the police and very forthcoming in everything she told them."
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One writer shares her experience.
I am in L.A. on a press trip, courtesy of Pure Romance, the largest in-home party company that offers relationship enhancement products.
A group of editors, TV people, and local women descended upon a giant villa at the Sunset Marquis last night, and even though I hardly knew anyone, it wasn’t awkward at all. I grew up in a house where we never ever ever ever ever talked about this stuff (still don’t), but honestly, I heard about everything imaginable last night, and I didn’t even blush! It was fun.
Our consultant, Lauren, was really cute. She’s the founder’s daughter. She … Read More
Hugh Jackman's wife enjoys him dressing as his X-Men character, Wolverine.
Awesome and awesomer. According to Digital Spy, the Australian actor Hugh Jackman has a touch of kink (or pragmatism) in him. While he has played a bevy of heavies (Van Helsing, the tough neck from Australia, Billy Bigelow in the Tony-winning play Carousel and Leopold of Kate & Leopold) but is best known to American audiences as Wolverine.
Wolverine (also known as Logan and Weapon X) is a mutant with the power to recover from injuries and has foot-long metal claws that are deployed from the backs of his hands. And the Australian actor stays in character (fine, … Read More
There are some things that happen in bed that cannot be overlooked: the mood-killers.
Some things really knock the wind out of the sails of passion and somethings are just momentary hurdles in the pursuit of amore. The biggest fear when entering one's first foray into bondage is the danger (and thrill) of being left trussed up. Knowing location of the keys and the exact intonation and identity of the safe word are of upmost importance; your genitals and psyche may depend on it. For what it's worth, a Michigan couple forgot rule 1 and had to call the fuzz to release the cuffs, per the Atlanta Journal-Constitution. Do you think there's … Read More
The Great Big Chart of Fetishes: public nudity, panties, ponyplay and more.
Today the Daily Bedpost turns us on to The Great Big Chart of Fetishes, a color-coded flow-chart of sorts, listing and linking various sexual proclivities to one another. (The chart is photo-free and safe for work, unless you've got an eagle-eyed boss, or a screen that projects onto a wall—hey, it happens.)
Some of the preferences on the chart are widespread, or at least we've heard of them, and some are, shall we say, less common. Major categories and themes listed are…
Classic SM, including spanking, bondage, branding, suspension, burning, electrical shock—not sure when … Read More