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Good sex is dependent on size and positive thinking—rather than foreplay, a new study reveals.
On science's neverending quest to find the cause for the female orgasm, it's only natural "research" would blatantly contradict itself a few hundred times or so. So we weren't shocked to read a study touting the benefits of length, crowing that size does matter! So much for gifted tongue flicks—ladies get out your rulers! Penis Extension Fails Catastrophically
A study led by Stuart Brody from University of the West of Scotland asked 1,000 Czech women what causes their "vaginal" orgasms. A vaginal orgasm, if you're curious, is a climax "produced simply from movements … Read More
He loves them, and they should bring you joy, too!
Women's Health has a great feature this month about bringing your breasts into sex. The piece points out that we talk about breasts all the time, but we're usually talking about the non-sexy aspects of the boob—cancer and breast-feeding for example. But boobs are also a sex organ, and WH lists a bunch ways to enjoy your breasts plus some interesting facts. Here are the best of their tips, plus a few of our own.
The light touch. Have him run his fingers just above the skin on your chest and on your breasts without touching your … Read More
A few tips on how to talk dirty once already in bed.
This may be too old school for you old fools, but I was just interneting the interweb and bumped into this oldie but goodie of things being said during whoopie-making on Incredimazing (give it a gander, it's a flowchart). That was pretty funny (in both the weird and ha-ha sense). But talking dirty, even if already sexually engaged, is a big turn-on for some. Just not everyone is good at it. Read: Dirty Talk Saved My Relationship
Normally, I'd go the other route and give a list of things that will spoil the moment so you can … Read More
It's all fun and games until someone gets shot in the chest.
There's nothing wrong with a hot-n-heavy game of dirty cowboy. And according to Deborah Yvette Parker, that's all she and her commonlaw husband, Broderick Craig Crachian, were partaking in when he died of an accidental gunshot wound to the chest. I Wanna Be A Cowboy (& You Can Be My Cowgirl)
Describing her as "extremely distraught," Parker's court-appointed attorney, Murray Newman, explained to the Houston Chronicle that: "She loves him, and this is just a terrible accident. My understanding is she was one hundred percent cooperative with the police and very forthcoming in everything she told them."
Among … Read More
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For many men, there are some all-too common beliefs about sex that undermine marriages. Les Parrott, Ph.D., author of "Crazy Good Sex" and founder of RealReationships.com, debunks some of the enduring myths men have about sex and offers ways for men to rekindle their relationships and sex lives.
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Sexual fantasies: why do we have them, and what's normal?
If you want to enliven your next dinner party, bring out this question: what was the subject of your last sexual fantasy?
Forks and jaws might drop, but only because almost everyone in attendance will be recreating the scene last played in their head, or claiming that they don't fantasize, or claiming to only fantasize about their partner. However, chances are everyone at the table (assuming you're not dining at a senior center) has erotic and illicit fantasies, and does so on a normal basis. But rarely, if ever, do we want to talk … Read More
Ten kissing facts, traditions and out-there laws.
Forget sex. Kissing can be one of the most intimate, sensual, and just plain fun things you can do with another person. And as anyone who is sex-educated knows: the better the foreplay, the better the sex. Read on to discover ten unusual kissing facts, and be grateful that locking lips no longer leads you to the guillotine.
1. According to anthropologists, 90 percent of people kiss. But that doesn’t mean that kissing is the same for everyone. Kissing customs vary across the world.
For instance, certain African tribes literally kiss the ground of their leaders, while in many … Read More
To lube or not to lube, God is the answer, and babies on board.
Love Bytes: Three must click sex, dating and relationship links.
Has lube become a replacement for foreplay? [College Candy]
Derrick* and I used to have great sex. We were both passionate, experimental, and great in bed (hey, confidence is a turn-on, right?). But lately we have been in a rut, and I blame it on lube.
Does inviting God into bed count as having a threesome? [The Huffington Post]
Baby drama in the new economy. How to deal? [Recessionwire]
But here's the thing: feminist or not, I don't want to miss out on the babies. Unexpectedly strong mommy … Read More
Sexologist Dr. Brian Parker doles out pointers for ladies with foreplay-resistant men.
Why do men seem to have a hard-wired disdain for generous servings of foreplay?
Women have probably internally wondered for centuries why men devour sex like a two-bite dollar meal instead of savoring like a five-course feast. Let's be honest, more times than not, a metaphorical bill has arrived before most women have even had a chance to finish buttering the bread.
Do they think we don't want foreplay? Are they just super-selfish? Lazy? Take us for granted? Secretly inexperienced?
These are all pretty valid questions.
Hitchedmag.com tackled this aged old sexual dilemma recently. … Read More