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Are You Always Trying to Prove Your Love?

Are You Always Trying to Prove Your Love?

Are you exhausted from trying to prove that you are a good person & trying to prove your love?

Melanie grew up with a narcissistic mother who demanded that Melanie conform to her concept of how a child should behave. To protect herself from her mother's anger, blame and disapproval, Melanie tried to be the "perfect child". She got excellent grades in school, was obedient at home, and never did anything to cause her parents to worry about her. She would listen for hours to her mother's complaints, becoming a mother to her mother by the time she was twelve years old.

Can You Date In The Modern World?
Iphones, Facebook and Twitter have overtaken the task of wooing in the dating world.

Can You Date In The Modern World?

How dating & relationships have changed in our technology laden world. Can you date today?

The progression of technology, computers and phones make communication a new species in modern relationships. What used to require actual phone calls and advanced notice now happens in the blink of an eye. And this fast pace may hurt your relationships.

How To Make Your Marriage Last

How To Make Your Marriage Last

Marrying the right person does not automatically lead to happiness ad bliss ever after.

Do you fear making the wrong choice in marriage and have anxiety about making your relationship permanent, even though you feel in love? You are not alone.  One of the most frequently asked questions I hear as a relationship coach is, "How will I know without a doubt this person is the right one to marry?"  

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Have you had your heart broken before?

Rejected: Why Your Acts Of Love Aren't Appreciated

Why do people misinterpret our acts of love?

Whether it's declaring your love to your longtime crush or cooking a surprise dinner for your husband before he gets home from work — sometimes, people don't acknowledge these gifts of love and that can leave you feeling unappreciated. An expert explains why others misunderstand our acts of love.

6 Things Stopping You From Finding True Love
Don't let these roadblocks get in the way of love!

6 Things Stopping You From Finding True Love

Finding true love has never been easier ... if you know how to make wise choices.

More than 250 million people around the world will start a romantic relationship this year. Millions will find the love of their lives.

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Get juicy tips for spicing up your relationship!

YourTango And Durex Reveal The Liberating Side Of Being Together

Our sexy new campaign encourages couples to "Get Closer, Go Further."

From April through June, YourTango will feature tons of hot steamy articles, videos, and photo galleries devoted to the most sensual side of being in a committed relationship. Check back every day for juicy tips on how to spice up your usual date night by incorporating aphrodisiac cocktails (it's true; they really do heat things up), advice for reliving your favorite memories together, ways to incorporate some tasty treats into your usual foreplay routine — and lots more.

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It's amazing what this small change can do for your sex life.

The Best Sex Advice You'll Ever Get

Try this revolutionary idea and change your sex life forever. It's practically guaranteed.

I was having lunch with Dr. Marty Klein last week, author of the groundbreaking book, "Sexual Intelligence." After we'd ordered our shrimp dumplings and pot stickers, I asked him, "Okay, Marty, what would you say, in general, is the number one thing that couples could do to improve their sex lives?" He paused over the steaming shrimp.

Victory is sweetest when you’ve known defeat

Victory is sweetest when you’ve known defeat

Hard times in love? That’ll make the victory of finding your true love that much sweeter...

We had the honor and the privilege to be invited to the lovely home of one of our clients last weekend. We got to sit down with her and her soulmate husband, and to snuggle with their little baby too. It was so fun and yet so tender and meaningful for all of us… because we remember when she first started working with us about 2 years ago. 2 short years. Not that long ago, really.

How to Communicate True Love

How to Communicate True Love

Here's some love advice. Upgrade from the "Golden Rule" to the "Platinum Rule".

Perhaps there is someone new in your life. You want to let them know you are falling in love with them but not sure how. Maybe you have been seeing someone for a little while now. You realize that you are ready to deepen the bond or take things to a new level but you don’t want to screw it up. Perhaps there is someone special who has been in your life for a very long time. You are seeking fresh new ways to demonstrate your love and affection, but are drawing a blank. When it comes to communicating love, a generic one size fits all approach simply will not do.