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Dating & Relationships: 50 Sex Tips For Men & Women [Expert]

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Dating & Relationships: 50 Sex Tips For Men & Women [Expert]
Keep the sex alive in your relationship by keeping it new! Try these tips out at home.

Regardless of whether you are in a relationship or just dating at the moment, these tips are something to implement into your sex-life. Many of us forget about the little things that we loved about each other when we first met & become complacent within our relationships. This is not something to be taken lightly and nurturing the love between you & your partner should be a top priority on a daily basis.

Taking each other for granted is one of the top reasons for the divorce statistics today. You chose each other for a reason ~ don’t forget why. Keep it fresh & alive by creating new memories. You wouldn’t stop loving your children so put in the same energies with loving your partner.

#1 reason with many women is Romance. If a man knows how to be romantic he will be able to lure his lady sexually without persistence. #1 For most men is getting regular sex

  1. Don’t ignore men’s nipples
  2. Keep it fresh and alive for both sexes ~ don’t be predictable!
  3. Men like women who explore & take initiative sexually.
  4. Women like massage/candles/ soft words and a man who caresses them. (They do not like to be to be groped or men who are constantly aggressive!)
  5. Men love lingerie and a woman who enjoys wearing it.
  6. They also like it when she decides to forego her underwear when out for the evening.
  7. Booze-less sex is better than a drunken session. The senses are more alive sober & you actually remember you had sex!
  8. Make time for daytime sex!  Sex after 9pm becomes a routine & never as arousing ~ everyone is tired from their busy day.
  9. A little naughty talk in the bedroom is alluring for both sexes once you get over being shy.
  10. Send phone sex messages (if you call them at the office ensure the speaker phone is off)
  11. Always listen to what your partner says they like during sex.
  12. Pick up on their desires in & out of the bedroom & use it to your advantage.
  13. Hot coffee delivered in the morning guarantees is like foreplay to a woman.
  14. The littlest gestures will increase your odds of better sex or at least getting it once in a while.
  15. Try new positions don’t become a creature of habit in the bedroom
  16. Wear cologne or body cream lightly & do not forget the deodorant! You may not think you need it but trust me most people do!
  17. Learn how to read each other’s feelings so you don’t have to ask.
  18. Be aware of their body language. Know when something is not right.
  19. Ask questions! Show interest in their life.
  20. After your man gets home from work, bring him a drink or the remote control for an hour. He needs time to unwind not 50 questions.
  21. Men: after your orgasm sex is NOT over!
  22. Scream out once in awhile let the neighbors know you are not that boring couple after all.
  23. Sex is not just penetration.
  24. Don’t ask someone if they would like to have sex! Be creative.
  25. Shave!
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