Shela Dean - Author, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Richmond, VA
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Shela Dean (JD)


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Phone 804.332.5323

Fax: sheladean1

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Frequent Foreplay Miles, Your Ticket To Total Intimacy

by Shela Dean

Want more WOW in your relationship-in and out of the bedroom? FREQUENT FOREPLAY MILES shows you how to create intimacy in all aspects of your relationship. Written with humor, common sense practicality, and a conversational style, this book shows you how to turn everyday stuff-from a trip to the grocery store to an uh-oh situation-into an opportunity to score big ...

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You Unstuck: Mastering the New Rules of Risk-taking in Work and Life

In You Unstuck, Libby Gill uses cases studies, client stories from her coaching work, and brain research to help readers understand the biological basis of fears that hold them back. She shows how to reframe what she calls Riskophobia, turn off the fear voices, and circumvent ancient defense systems. Readers can then create an Escalating Risk Hierarchy by ...

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Shela Dean

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Time in Practice:

6-10 years

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:

Relationship Coach


YourTango Expert Partner

I offer my services:

At my office


By Email

Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)

Via Skype

Via a webcam

Licence information:

Expiration 12/31/14
Number 83245

Articles by Shela Dean
Why An Annulment Doesn't Really Erase Your Marriage

Why An Annulment Doesn't Really Erase Your Marriage

Don't delude yourself into believing your marriage never happened like these celebrities.

Marriage: The Reasons You Should (And Shouldn't) Get Married

What Is The Point Of Getting Married?

You can make a pros and cons list...but ultimately you know what works best for you.

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Marriage: Use It Or Lose It

Your marriage is your most valuable asset but if you don't use it, you'll lose it.

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From DSK To Duke Lacrosse: Do We Charge Rape Too Quickly?

Are prosecutors too quick to charge rape in high-profile cases like Dominique Strauss-Kahn's?


How To Make A Genuine Apology

An apology needs to validate feelings, show accountability, and give assurance it won't happen again

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All Specialties

Couples/Marital Issues