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4 Awesome & Sexy Role Play Ideas

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Are you ready for a little adventure? Try these roleplaying ideas for a ton more fun in the bedroom!

Today, I am going to teach you four really awesome role-play ideas you can try out with your partner to spice things up, explore your fantasies and generally just have a lot more fun when it comes to love-making.

(P.S. You'll find my most powerful tips, tactics & techniques in the Bad Girls Bible site).

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But before I teach you each of these role-playing ideas, I want to quickly cover three very important different factors so that you get the most out of each of these role play ideas with your partner.

Try out the role play ideas that turn you on the most. This sounds obvious, but the sad thing is many couples get stuck in the mainstream, because they are afraid to try what really turns them on. So if you aren't particularly excited about the most common, "mainstream" role-plays like the doctor-patient role-play, then forget about them and start trying out things that really turn you on.

Try experimenting with your partner. In addition to focusing mainly on the role-play ideas that turn you on the most, make sure to do some experimentation. You'll be surprised to find that certain role-plays you never thought much about before are highly erotic and arousing for you and your man.

You're going to find that a good amount of role-play ideas fall into the category of dominance and submission (D/s) where one of you is going to take on the dominant role, while the other is going to be in the submissive role. So if you enjoy D/s play, then you will love roleplaying with your man.

Okay, with these three tips in mind, lets learn some really fun role playing scenarios and ideas ...

1. The working girl. The working girl role-play scenario takes on many forms but the basic idea behind it is that you need to earn money from your man by doing exactly what he wants. This could take the form of being his personal stripper, escort or even maid.

So he gets to tell you what to do but you get to charge him for it. He needs to start by telling you what to wear for your appointment with him. It could be a sexy dress, lingerie or nothing at all. Remember, it's his choice, but you get to charge him for it.

You can meet him at home or if you want to start somewhere more public, try meeting him at a classy bar. When you meet, remind him that you are working but if he is willing to pay he can get some "extra special" attention.

Then when you bring him home, you can give him the blowjob of his life. Use some of these powerful tips to make your blowjob really special.

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2. Naked maid. The naked maid is a role-playing idea where you are going to be in a submissive position, while your man is going to be watching and directing you during it. If your man has voyeuristic or domination fantasies, then he will love this one. And if you love the idea of being watched by someone, then you will love it too.

All you are going to be doing is cleaning your house/apartment but ... you're going to do it while naked. The whole time, your man will be directing you around the house/apartment telling you what to scrub and clean.

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