I wanted this article to just be a list of tactics and things you can do to make your man happy, but before I give you the list, there is just a few really important things that I need to cover first so that you make the most out of them. (If you want to learn my best dirty talking tips and techniques for building sexual tension and turning him on, you'll find them in this powerful video.)
Happiness Is A Two-Way Street: If you are only ever focusing on making your man happy, but he never puts in any effort to make you happy then you have a recipe for disaster. Relationships require both of you to work on them. If you are constantly doing nice things for your man and making sure that he's enjoying your relationship, but he's not reciprocating, then you are potentially heading into troubled waters. It's not just a case of expecting him to do nice things for you. Often you'll need to literally tell him.
Relationships Are About More Than Making Someone Happy: Making your partner happy in your relationship is obviously very important, but there are other crucial factors that you need to pay attention to if you want to have a fulfilling relationship with your man. These include shared experiences, a common connection, physical attraction and obviously enjoying each others company as well as many other things. Okay, now lets get to some very specific things that you can do if you want to know how to make your man happy:
Random Intimate Acts: An awesome way to make your man happy and keep him happy is by doing little random intimate acts for him every 10 days or so. They don't need to be some massive show of apprecitation and love — just something small. Most importantly, you need to do them when your man is not expecting them. Here are a few ideas:
- Lighting Candles In The Bedroom: One night when you are both getting ready for bed, try lighting a few tealights in your bedroom and make love in the candlelight.
- Shower For Two: One morning (preferably on the weekend), follow your man into the shower and wash him. It's really hot and a great way to show him how much you care about him.
- Wear Something Really Hot (When You're Both Alone): The next time you are both alone and both have some free time, slip into some really sexy like lingerie or some clothes that you know your man loves. It makes for a really sexy surprise for your man. Bonus points for cooking him a meal in your sexy get up.
- Give Him A Surprise Blow Job: Men love oral sex, so why not take advantage of this and give your man a blow job when he's least expecting it. If you are looking for tips on how to give wonderful oral sex, then you will probably be interested in watching this detailed video tutorial on the art of giving a perfect blow job.
Your Position In The Bedroom: Another awesome way to make your man happy is to learn some new positions to use in the bedroom. (You can find my most powerful techniques in this in depth tutorial video.) Just choose 2-3 that you'd like to try with your man. Then the next time you're both in bed together, surprise your man with them. If your man is usually the one who leads things in the bedroom, then it can be a little nerve-wrecking, but just do it anyway. You'll be glad to see that most guys are thrilled when you are the initiator.
Random Acts Of Fun: Earlier I talked about using random intimate acts to make your man happy and keep him happy. By making it random, then your man will get to see your spontaneous side which is an awesome way to keep your relationship interesting for both of you. Random acts of fun follow the same pattern. Your aim is to do something fun together. It doesn't have to be cool or super unique, just something fun like trying a new sport together, buying a sex toy(s) together, going on holidays to somewhere really different or even just going to a bar neither of you have been to before. Remember, the idea is not to do something cool or expensive, it's to do something fun.
Have You Told Your Man How Your Feel About Him? It's a secret that all guys will never admit, but the truth is that men need reassurance just as much as anyone else. I'm not suggesting that you tell your man how you feel about him 50 times a day. Instead, I'm suggesting, that every once in a while, remind your man why you like him so much. Guys are logical, so they are always looking for reasons and the meaning behind things. So it's important to tell him why. So there could be something physical that you adore about him or the way he talks or maybe it's the way your man holds himself. Maybe he has the cutest dimples. Whatever it is, let him know from time to time. It will keep your man extremely happy.
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