I wanted this article to just be a list of tactics and things you can do to make your man happy, but before I give you the list, there is just a few really important things that I need to cover first so that you make the most out of them.
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Happiness Is A 2 Way Street - If you are only ever focusing on making your man happy, but he never puts in any effort to make you happy then you have a recipe for disaster. Relationships require both of you to work on them. If you are constantly doing nice things for your man and making sure that he's enjoying your relationship, but he's not reciprocating, then you are potentially heading into troubled waters.
It's not just a case of expecting him to do nice things for you. Often you'll need literally tell him! The same applies to you too.
Relationships Are About More Than Making Someone Happy - Making your partner happy in your relationship is obviously very important, but there are other crucial factors that you need to pay attention to if you want to have a fulfilling relationship with your man. These include shared experiences, a common connection, physical attraction and obviously enjoying each others company as well as many other things.
Ok, now lets get to some very specific things that you can do if you want to know how to make your man happy:
Random Intimate Acts - An awesome way to make your man happy and keep him happy is by doing little random intimate acts for him every 10 days or so. They don't need to be some massive show, just something small. Most importantly, you need to do them when your man is not expecting them. Here are a few ideas:
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- Lighting Candles In The Bedroom. One night when you are both getting ready for bed, try lighting a few tealights in your bedroom and make love in the candlelight.
- Shower For 2. One morning (preferably on the weekend), follow your man into the shower and wash him. It's really hot and a great way to show him how much you care about him.
- Wear Something Really Hot (when you're both alone). The next time you are both alone and both have some free time, slip into something really sexy like lingerie or some clothes that you know your man loves. It makes for a really sexy surprise for your man. Bonus points for cooking him a meal in your sexy get up!
- Giving Him A Surprise Blowjob. Men love blowjobs. So why not take advantage of this and give your man one when he's least expecting it. If you are looking for tips on how to give a great blowjob, then you will probably be interested in watching this detailed oral sex video tutorial on the art of giving a perfect bj
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