Learning how to give head to a guy is often misunderstood. Fortunately it's very straightforward and easy to give your man an awesome blow job if you do just a few things right. Today I'm going to give you 6 blowjob tips to get you started on giving your man great head.
(P.S. These are just a small section of my more powerful blow job tips that you will find in this blowjob video).
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1. Think About The Tip! The top part of your man's penis is the most sensitive part by far. More sensitive = more pleasure. Scientifically this is known as the glans or head of his penis. It's the purple part of his penis that looks distinctively different to the rest of it.
When you are first learning how to give head to your man, you need to concentrate on this area more than any other. The great thing about focusing mostly on giving oral to the head of your man's penis is that you don't have to worry about taking it deep into your mouth or throat, so you don't have to worry too much about coughing, choking or gagging.
Start by gently and softly kissing the head of his penis with moist lips before taking the very tip of it into your mouth. Wrap your lips over it and then run the tip of your tongue all around the very tip of his penis. You can make a circular motion with your tongue or you can just lick it up and down.
This is just one awesome way to start giving your man head.
2. From The Bottom To The Top. Once you are comfortable using your tongue to give head to your guy, it's time to try something a little more advanced! You are going to be gently massaging his penis from the base right to the tip with your tongue.
Start by lightly grabbing his penis with your hand and pressing it towards his stomach so that you can easily lick the underside of it.
You are going to start right at the base of his penis, by his testicles. Use your lips to lightly squeeze his balls, but also make sure to kiss and lick them too. You can even take one or both of them into your mouth and suck on them or use your tongue to massage them. I cover this in more depth in this detailed blowjob video here.
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Next you are going to very slowly trace your tongue along the underside of his penis from the base, all the way up the Corpus Spongiosum (this is the soft ridge that runs the length of the underside of his penis). Once you reach the top of his penis, it's time to take it into your mouth and start sucking it.