Learning how to give head to a guy is often misunderstood. Fortunately it's very straightforward and easy to give your man awesome oral sex if you do just a few things right. Today I'm going to give you 6 bj tips to get you started on giving your man great head.
(P.S. These are just a small section of my more oral sex techniques that you will find in this instructional video).
1. Think About The Tip! The top part of your man's penis is the most sensitive part by far. More sensitive = more pleasure. Scientifically this is known as the glans or head. It's the purple part that looks distinctively different to the rest of it.
When you are first learning how to give head to your man, you need to concentrate on this area more than any other. The great thing about focusing mostly on giving oral to the head of your man's penis is that you don't have to worry about taking it deep into your mouth or throat, so you don't have to worry too much about coughing, choking or gagging.
Start by gently and softly kissing the head of his penis with moist lips before taking it into your mouth. Then it's as simple as making a circular motion with your tongue.
This is just one awesome way to start giving your man head.
2. From The Bottom To The Top. Once you are comfortable using your tongue to give head to your guy, it's time to try something a little more advanced! You are going to be gently massaging his member with your tongue.
You are going to start right at the base of it. You can use your lips to lightly squeeze it, but also make sure to kiss and lick it too. If you like, you can also go a bit lower to his testicles too. Here, you can even take one or both of them into your mouth and use your lips and toungue to massage and carress them.
Next you are going to very slowly trace your tongue along the underside from the base, all the way up the Corpus Spongiosum (this is the soft ridge that runs the length of the underside of his penis). Once you reach the top, it's time to take it into your mouth and start giving it some slippery oral action.
For more in depth & powerful tips on how to give your man great oral sex, you may be interested in checking out this detailed instructional video.
3. Use Those Fingers! When you are trying to figure out how to give head to a man, you may be wondering what techniques you should use with your mouth or tongue. Many people get so caught up with the blow job part of giving head that they sometimes forget about using their hands. Don't worry! Using your hands while giving head to your guy is something that he'll adore!
If you use the first blow job technique that I described 'Think About The Tip', then you will have your hands free. While they are free, there's no need to leave them idle.
Use one hand to lightly grab his penis and start massaging it, all while keeping the head of it in your mouth. Now with your other hand, gently cup his testicles and lightly squeeze them and run your fingers around them. Doing all three things at once is not the easiest thing to do, but once you get the hang of it, you will be an oral sex goddess!
4. Use A Little Suction. Using the first 3 techniques I described will make you far, far better at giving head. But there is no need to rest on your laurels just yet....another really nice technique to use while giving head to your man is to use a little suction.
Contrary to popular belief, this is not to suck anything out of him. Instead the purpose of sucking him is to apply more skin-on-skin contact which will give it more stimulation which means more pleasure for him.
All you need to do is to take him a little further into your mouth (2-5+ inches deep), then wrap your lips around it so no air can get in or out. Next, just start gently sucking so that your lips and cheeks close in around his shaft and head. Now slowly move your head up and down him while trying to maintain this gentle suction.
Top Tip: Don't forget to breath while giving your man a blow job! When you are learning how to give head to a guy, you may feel like you have to maintain the same level of suction on your man's penis for 10 or 20 minutes. You don't! Just do it for 10 to 20 seconds at a time and then afterwards take a rest or use a different technique.
5. More Powerful Tips. The oral sex techniques that I just gave you should serve as a great foundation to learning how to give good head. But if you are serious about learning how to blow your man's mind with great oral sex, then you may be interested in watching this incredibly powerful tutorial video.
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