Your 6-Step Guide To Sweeping A Guy Right Off His Feet

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Hint: start by being juuuuust out of reach.

Discovering how to get a guy to like you is a complex, frustrating and sometimes very counter-intuitive process. While I am known as the "sex guru", today I want to share 3 very powerful methods, tactics, and techniques to get a guy like and want you.

Because after all: great sex often comes from great relationships!

1. Know That Guys Are Cats

The first thing to say on the subject of learning how to get a guy to want you is that you need to realize that men are just like cats. Sound a little weird? Hear me out!

Ever see a cat chase after a toy that is just sitting there? I certainly haven't. However, when it's dangled in front of them but still remains slightly out of reach, they literally go crazy for it.mThey jump around, chase, sprint and pretty much will do whatever it needs to do to catch this "just out of reach" toy.

Bizarrely, guys are exactly the same. If you're fun, exciting, playful, flirty, just out of reach, then he is more likely to desire and chase after you.

There are a few more attraction triggers that will make guys like you and see you in a totally different light (read: an attractive light). Here are the most important:

2. Stay Healthy (On All Levels)

Going to the gym in and of itself doesn't make you healthy. Eating right isn't the only important factor for healthiness. Being thin is a goal of many women, but again this may not necessarily make you healthier.

But combining these 3 things — going to the gym, maintaining a healthy weight and eating right — is going to massively contribute to health.

You see, guys aren't really looking for a skinny woman, gym bunny or a nutritious eater. They are naturally attracted to someone who is healthy. Being lean is the result of being healthy.

So ask yourself, "Am I doing everything possible for my health?"

3. Dress Attractively, Not Fashionably

I am absolutely not talking about being fashionable. Being fashionable is certainly fun, but it you are keen to make a guy want you and chase you, then you should think more about dressing attractively to accentuate your good points.

I can honestly tell you this as guy: men just don't care about fashion nearly as much as women do. As a result, we often don't even notice the latest trends or what's hot.

So to reiterate, rather than dressing fashionably, dress attractively. The difference is often subtle, but it's crucial to getting a guy.

4. Don't Be A Debbie Downer

I know "Susie Smiles" sounds a little cheesy, but I hope you get my point.

Are you a fun person, a depressing person, or a boring person? Most guys don't want to hang around a girl that's boring or depressing, no matter how attractive she is. They'd prefer to run a mile, honestly.

When I talk about being a fun person and a positive person, I don't mean some sort of psycho-happy-all-the-time person. I'm saying that you should do your best to see the good in the world and be at least a little bit more positive.

5. Have Your Own Life

The final thing I have to say on getting a guy to like you is that you absolutely need to have your own life when it comes to dating, and even just attracting a guy. Again, this comes down to the fact that guys don't want what they can easily have (remember the cat analogy above?).

So rather than always being available to hang out with a guy, make sure that you have your own life, interests and fun things to do (and invite him to). This will make you seem way, way more valuable in his eyes.

6. And One More Thing ... Be Great At Sex! 

While figuring out how to get a guy to like you is important, learning how to keep him is crucial if you want things to progress. One of the best ways to keep him attracted to you is by having great sex.

All of the above adds up to one very attractive woman that a man just can't resist.

If you want a master class in how to talk dirty to your man to keep him attracted, then you should watch this tutorial presentation (with examples). If you don't already know how to give great oral sex, then take a look at this tutorial video.

 

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