Once you learn how to give your man a happy ending massage, he is very likely to return the favor! But before you just jump right in, try following these tips to make sure your man gets maximum pleasure from it.
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There are a few key things to master before jumping in and just giving your man a happy ending massage. Get them right and you are going to have one very satisfied man on your hands!
Set The Mood
You might be super excited to just jump in and start massaging your man and quickly get to the "happy ending". It's totally understandable because it's just so much fun...But if you can take a step back and start with setting the mood, then your man is going to have a much better time.
In almost all cases, you'll be giving your man a massage on your bed in your bedroom. The easiest thing to fix in your bedroom to set the mood is the lighting. Either use candles or use a beside lamp directed towards a corner wall. The main thing is to make sure it's not too bright. Next is the smell. Ideally you'll have a scented candle to help with giving your room a nice aroma, but if not then spraying a little perfume is perfect. While it's not for everyone, you can also try burning incense.
Lastly, you need to choose an oil or massage lotion for your happy ending massage. I always recommend coconut oil or grapeseed oil. Just remember that these oils will degrade a rubber condom and make it likely that it will tear.
And that's pretty much how to set the mood to giving your man a happy ending massage. The only other thing is what you wear. You can try lingerie, but you may find that simply being naked is far, far more comfortable.
Start Off Slow
The first time your give your man a happy ending massage, you shouldn't tell him about the happy ending part. It should be a surprise. So you should just ask him if he'd just like a massage. No guy will turn down a free massage! Now, you may be feeling a little intimidated if you've never given anyone a massage before. Don't worry! If you just use a combination of the following 3 massage techniques on your man then you are 95% of the way there...Additionally, it will keep you from complicating things.
The 3 Massage Techniques
Finger Tips - This first technique involves you pressing your fingertips into his muscles and gently moving your finger tips up and down his muscles. It's that simple...just make sure to trim your fingernails first to avoid accidentally cutting him.
Lobster Claws - I know it's a weird name, but you'll understand it in a minute. You are going to make a kind of lobster claw with your your thumb and your index finger. So one side of the claw is your thumb and the other side is your index finger.