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How To Attract The Sensational And Gorgeous Life You DESERVE

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You ARE Worthy of a Wonderful and Beautiful Life
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You deserve to be happy.

We all dream of a wonderful life full of happiness, joy, and love, as well as all the wonderful material things we can imagine. But, unfortunately, many of us go through life hoping, wishing, and chasing after but never achieving the life we desire. Why?

In my opinion, it's because of commercial marketing, religion, and a very critical culture or society. We've been programmed to believe we are unworthy.

If you believe yourself to be unworthy, then somewhere in your life, you were presented with the idea that you are. Eventually, this idea became a belief.

Although it's a lie, perhaps you were convinced because people you trusted told you so ( for example, your parents or other family members, coaches, peers, and friends). Perhaps, circumstances confirmed it for you.

Regardless, the belief that you are unworthy was stored away in your subconscious as a truth. Now, your subconscious causes you to live in a way that confirms your lack of self-worthiness to be true.


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The power of your subconscious mind is why low self-worth has such a destructive hold on you and the choices you make in your life. It’s something so ingrained in you that you unknowingly make decisions limited by the self-sabotaging deceptions of your subconscious.

Stop being angry, resentful, jealous, or feeling dejected for what you don’t have. Our modern culture has brainwashed us so intensely, through marketing, that we’ve been brought up being told and believing that we are NOT good enough until we buy their product, whatever it may be at the moment.

That covers everything from your hair, clothes, shoes, purse, cell phone, the car that you drive, and even the person you choose as a mate.

The truth is, none of these things matter and they have absolutely no value related to your self-worth. So STOP believing these brainwashing lies that are nothing but marketing tactics telling you (and your ego) what you should look like, act like, and sound like in order to be acceptable. They simply are not true. 

The truth is, your entire existence is one of worthiness. You are a perfect child of God and are deserving of a beautiful life, simply because you’re a human being who has the ability to do good in the world. Be happy, thankful, and proud of who you are, your "true" self, and what you do have. 

We’ve all had our struggles in life and it doesn’t matter what has happened in your past. The past is behind you. It is your choice to move forward and reprogram your subconscious to rid yourself of these thoughts and behaviors of low self-worth.

If you don’t believe yourself worthy, both consciously and subconsciously, you will attract nothing but disappointment. Why? Because your deep seeded emotional beliefs are those of unworthiness.

Henry Ford stated: "Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you’re absolutely right."

Thinking you can’t is, in my opinion, the purest and truest form of self-imposed limitations, and is caused by your lack of worthiness, self-esteem, self-image, self-confidence, or however you want to label it. The bottom line is, how you feel about yourself is a choice, although it often doesn’t feel that way.

So how do you change this? You have to affirm and truly believe emotionally and deeply in your subconscious mind that you are in fact worthy and deserving of a wonderful life.

The process begins by you accepting you as who you are, your "true" self, and maximizing on the gifts you are blessed with. You must first feel worthy and deserving of a grand and miraculous lifestyle. Your true emotional beliefs are nestled deep within your subconscious mind and are developed over time.

Remember, we are and attract into our lives, what we choose to think, say, and believe about ourselves and our perceived reality. 


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The change from negative thinking to positive thinking starts by you making a conscious decision to do so, and work these new positive self-beliefs deep down into your subconscious mind. You must consciously work on this until these positive self-worthiness emotions are engrained as your true and honest opinion.

If not, the law of attraction will stay busy at work creating your unworthy life. The more you focus on emotions such as anxiety, worry, stress, fear, hopelessness, frustration, jealousy, criticism, judgment, and doubt, the more you create more of these negative emotions, and the problem just keeps gaining momentum.

It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy of disaster unless you STOP this negative thought process. Your subconscious is simply doing its job of storing information and guiding you based off images, experiences, information and beliefs.

You are in control of the information it receives. Your life is too valuable to waste on lies and no one can convince you of your worthiness other than you. It is entirely your choice.

You are a child of God, a unique and priceless human being. This marvel in and of itself makes you worthy of every opportunity to experience a life filled with an abundance of anything you desire. All you have to do is decide to believe it and then live it

Building a strong, unshakable and indestructible high self-worth is the foundation of creating, or building your desired life and manifesting anything you want. As with anything that is built, it must have a very strong and sturdy foundation which is both deep and wide.

It's your life and your choice. By repeating positive "I am..." affirmations, you will begin the process of re-programming your subconscious beliefs about your worthiness.

Here are some "I am" affirmations to get you started. I suggest you print them out and read them several times per day. Add your own affirmations to the list as you grow stronger and stronger.

You ARE worthy!


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  • I am worthy of and co-create my life with purpose and vision.                                            
  • I am in total control of what I think and say about myself.    
  • I am happy and bliss, joy, and prosperity accompany me in all that I do.
  • I am true to my own path. I enjoy a great sense of purpose in my life.
  • I am consciously aware of my beliefs, and I only support those which empower me.
  • I am only influenced by positive beliefs and thoughts.
  • I am that which I believe I am.
  • I am worthy and believe all things are possible.
  • I believe in my ability to create my own life.
  • I believe in myself and in my abilities.
  • I am worthy and have the right to live the life I desire.
  • I am worthy of health, wealth, and happiness.
  • I am committed to becoming the best I can be.
  • I am committed to living my life passionately and purposefully.
  • I am committed to making positive changes in my life. I am very grateful for the unconditional love I have for myself and all others.

RJ Banks is the author of the best-selling book "The Power of I AM and the Law of Attraction" and the popular audio affirmations programs available at Law Of Attraction Affirmations, including a FREE Audio MP3 download of your 2017 New Year Affirmations. 

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