Considering A Threesome? Read This First!

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If you're considering a threesome for the first time, be sure to weigh all your options.

Do you fantasize about threesomes? You are not alone! Threesomes are by far the most common sexual fantasy for both men and women of all sexual orientations. But while the fantasy of a threesome might be incredibly arousing, the reality can be a bit more tricky.

By popular demand, we've put together the ultimate guide to threesomes, designed to help you avoid emotional fallout and damage to your primary relationship. After all, no amount of pleasure is worth months of drama. Check out the complete book How To Have a Threesome for comprehensive advice on how to know if a threesome is right for  you, how to plan your ultimate threesome and how to strengthen your twosome in the process! Follow this guide, and you'll know how to have a hot, successful threesome. Or you may discover that you should just keep the ideas as a hot fantasy — the choice is yours.

Why Threesomes Are So Hot:
There is not a whole lot of mystery to it: if sex with one person is exciting, why not double the pleasure? Many people fantasize about the thrill of adding someone new to a longterm relationship, but novelty alone is usually not at the heart of the threesome fantasy. Threesomes are very much about the experience of multiple lovers at once. Here are some of the most common reasons the threesome is such a popular sexual fantasy:

  • Endless Variety: Three mouths, six hands and three sets of genitals offer an endless array of combinations. Specific combinations depend on the genitals involved and the boundaries of each particular threesome. Many people have specific combinations that they find especially thrilling.
  • More of a Good Thing: Like breasts? How about four at a time? Love the sensation of hard muscular arms? Try being surrounded by man flesh! Many people love the idea of doubling their pleasure with multiples of a body part they are particularly fond of.
  • Being Desired Doubled Down: If having sex with one delicious lover is confirmation of your desirability and sensuality, being sexual with two people can make you feel like a sex god or goddess. It can be very thrilling to turn on not one but two lovers!
  • Seeing Your Lover Anew: Threesomes give you the opportunity to see your lover with someone else, and this encourages you to take a step back and and witness your lover with fresh eyes. Many report seeing their lover with all new appreciation and heightened desire. While not a solution for a relationship that has gone stale, threesomes can reinvigorate a successful but complacent relationship and renew your love for one another. (They could also destroy a relationship, so it is important to be on the same page as your partner).
  • Same Sex Experiences: For many people, a threesome is a very safe way to explore what it is like to share erotic energy with someone of the same sex (or opposite sex if you are mostly gay!) For many straight people, a threesome is the first place they experience same-sex erotic contact. This can be incredibly thrilling and liberating. Many people who think they won't have much charge with a same-sex lover discover that there is actually a lot of potential for pleasure where before they had seen none. Keep reading...

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