Prostate Massage Pleasures: 5 Facts To Get Started


Prostate Massage Pleasures: 5 Facts To Get Started
Prostate massage is the hottest trend in male sexuality. Here's what you need to know!

Is your guy curious about prostate massage? Here’s everything you need to know to about exploring the pleasures of prostate massage with your man. When you are ready to get started, unleash the power of prostate orgasms with our online course: Prostate Massage Mastery.

Once you master the techniques of prostate massage, it can become a mutually pleasurable part of your sex life. Prostate massage is the hottest new trend in male sexuality: doctors are recommending prostate massage as a preventive health practice and men are reporting it brings them the best orgasms of their lives! Here are answers to the most common questions we get asked about prostate massage and how to get started exploring!


What Is Prostate Massage?
Prostate massage (also sometimes called prostate milking) is the direct stimulation of the prostate gland with a finger or a toy. The prostate is inside the male pelvis, surrounding the urethra. It contributes fluids to the male ejaculate and muscles around the prostate contract with every orgasm. So the prostate has already been involved in every ejaculation your man has ever experienced. Prostate massage simply highlights the sensations of the prostate by applying direct pressure on this sensitive area. Prostate massage is most commonly done by inserting one or two fingers into the anus and massaging the prostate.

Why Is Prostate Massage Healthy?
Prostate massage is so healthy that many doctors have started recommending it as a preventative health practice. Prostate massage is healthy for several reasons: it relaxes chronic tension in the pelvis, encourages fresh blood flow and stimulates fluid production. Many prostate diseases have been related to stagnancy and tension in the prostate and surrounding muscles. Prostate massage keeps the male sexual system healthy and also helps you detect any changes at the earliest stage, allowing men to seek medical help as soon as possible.

Why Is Prostate Massage Pleasurable?
Many guys report that prostate massage creates the most powerful, pleasurable orgasms they've ever experienced. Prostate massage is so pleasurable for a few reasons. Before you even get to the prostate, a good prostate massage activates and stimulates the thousands of nerve endings in the external anal area. Once you are inside, massaging the prostate directly creates a deep, pleasurable sensation of it's own. Finally, with prostate massage you are stimulating the internal root of the penis, so men feel erotic sensations starting deep within and extending out the entire length of their penis. Prostate massage orgasms are reported to be more explosive, more profound and deeply satisfying. Aren't you eager to see what that is like for your man?

Does Wanting Prostate Massage Make Him Gay or Bisexual?
Some women are concerned that the desire for prostate massage means their man is secretly gay or bisexual. We're committed to ending this myth once and for all. All men's sexual systems are designed the same. All men, no matter who they partner with, can enjoy stimulating their entire sexual system, which includes the anus and prostate. Anal stimulation and prostate massage feel erotic and create orgasms because that is how nature designed our bodies. Tapping into the pleasures of prostate massage can be a powerful way for men to explore their entire sexual system! If he is asking you to explore prostate massage with him, consider it a sign of trust and intimacy. Exploring new things will bring  you closer and expand your sex life: a win-win for both of you!

Isn't Prostate Massage Messy?
Hopefully we've convinced you to give prostate massage a try. But you may be turned off by the potential mess and "ick" factor of penetrating him. Don't worry: a few simple steps to prepare can make it a clean, hygienic experience. Check out our complete (and free!) guide to preparing for anal play here. The basics involve a healthy diet, using gloves so your hands are protected for easy clean-up, and learning the basic anatomy of the area. Let's be clear: poop is not stored in the rectum, the area you will be touching. It merely passes through during an active bowel movement. Knowing this fact can help you relax and explore this highly erogenous zone of your lover's body without letting "poo anxiety" get in your way! Prostate massage doesn't have to be messy at all and it is so pleasurable that you'll soon forget about your initial worries as you watch your man gasp with ecstasy!

Ready to Explore Prostate Massage? Start Here!
As more men and their partners explore the pleasures of prostate massage, we hope there will be more honest conversations about how hot and healthy it can be! We've been teaching men and women around the world about prostate massage since 2005. As producers of the world's bestselling video on prostate massage, we have heard from thousands of couples who successfully expanded their sex life by exploring prostate massage. Trust us, it is a pleasure worth exploring. Join our online course to master the skills of giving highly erotic prostate massage that will make your man explode with pleasure.

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