6 Obvious Signs He's A Real Gentleman

The women who are actively taking part in the dating world may already have a grasp of the various types of men available. There is, of course, the exciting and adventurous guy, a man who you don't want to introduce to your family.

On the other side, there is the man who showers you with carefully chosen flower bouquets or other lavish gifts but is a little bland when compared to the exciting and adventurous guy.

There is a third type of man. He's the one you don't come across so often. He is the true human, the courteous guy who opens the door for you (or anyone), is especially attentive and is careful about his and your image. He's knowledgeable without flaunting it, has excellent manners, and knows how to treat people to make them feel special.

This sounds like the perfect guy, but what are the signs to look for to know if you are dealing with such a man?

Here are 6 obvious signs he's a real human.

1. A human looks past your beauty

You won't hear compliments or remarks about your different body parts from a true human. This is a quite visible first sign, as many men seem to focus on the physical side of you and will likely create awkward situations.

Real humans value you for your intelligence, personality, kindness, and your passions or dreams. He looks for those things that make you attractive as a person. He will not just check if you got lucky in the gene pool.

2. A real human has interests and hobbies

This doesn't mean you are or feel neglected by his hobbies or personal interests. Instead, this type of man will get you curious about a variety of activities and interests. Moreover, having his own life with passions and interests means he will not be clingy, desperate, or create his life around a relationship. He already has his own life, and his relationship adds to his happiness.

3. He doesn't feel intimidated by your ambition and success

Successful and powerful women are challenged in the dating world because many men feel uncomfortable with a woman who seems more accomplished than them. However, a true human will never feel ostracized by this and will be supportive and a powerful, faithful ally alongside your dreams and passions. He is the perfect mate to create the ultimate power couple and help you achieve whatever goals you have envisioned.

4. A true human says exactly what they think

You know you found a good person when you know what he wants because he tells you. He is direct, and there will be no pathetic mind games or sleazy manipulation tactics in your relationship. Honesty is his middle name and is obvious through his actions.

5. A real human trusts you and advises you

This type of man isn't paranoid about your phone agenda, messages, or e-mails. He doesn't try to invade your personal space or inquire you about everything you do. Your privacy is a strict place where you hold the secret key, and he knows it. Furthermore, he is a trusted adviser on intimate or sensible issues and doesn't ask awkward questions. On the other hand, an insecure man tries to destroy your confidence and ruins your relationship's foundation.

6. He is calm, responsible, and composed at all times

When going out to a bar or a party, a woman will likely be hit on by other guys. This is a situation where most men fail the test. They get angry with other men and may make a scene out of it. The true human, however, makes his opinion known and solves the issue with the utmost tact and diplomacy. There are no creepy bar brawls. Instead, he knows you are his partner and at the end of the night, you are going home with him.