Should Anthony Weiner Be Forgiven?


Should Anthony Weiner Be Forgiven?
Sexting is common among teenagers, but with politicians too?

Should we forgive Anthony Weiner? In June 2011, Congressman Anthony Weiner made national news sexting a picture of his penis in boxer shorts. Immature? Yes. Obnoxious? Yes. Humiliating for his wife? I would think so. He promised to never do anything like this again.

Then in 2012 he appeared with his wife and child in a national news magazine saying he is a new man.

This summer, 2013, the news came out that he continues sexting three to ten other women, depending on the story you read, sending explicit messages and pictures of his now naked penis, which I assume he is very proud of and this becomes national news. He calls these women his "fans." He does not call this sexual harassment. With his wife standing next to him yet again, saying they went to therapy and she forgives him, he admits he is getting help for this, but it is not an addiction.

So I have to question if this is not an addiction, why can't he stop? And just how much time is this man spending sexting pictures and lewd sexual descriptions to 10 different women? Men tell me that one woman is about all they can handle! When does he have time to work? I have to question why in the world anyone would vote for this, dare I say, man? His lack of integrity is appalling and to trust him, New Yorkers would have to be incredibly naive, which I know them not to be!

Yes, men in power have huge egos and think they are beyond the rules written for the rest of us. We know this, but usually the dirt comes out after they are in office, not progressively over a two year period leading to one of the largest mayor races in the country. Interestingly, his wife, Huma Abedin, is an aid to Hillary Clinton, who also forgave her man. I have always admired Hillary Clinton’s strength in forgiving her husband’s infidelity, however, we as a nation are not picking a husband, we are picking representatives. It’s hard to imagine choosing a representative who spends so much time on facebook and twitter sending his penis out to his so called fans.

Forgiveness. What does this forgiveness teacher have to say about forgiveness and Anthony Weiner? It is important in deciding to forgive that we are still allowed to have boundaries, protect ourselves, stay safe and make wise decisions. Keep Reading...

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