I was at a conference of academics and I was talking to a woman about what I do. She told me about a very smart woman who teaches finance, very accomplished, many awards and lots of respect from her peers. But, she said, this very smart women just turns stupid when it comes to men.
Why do we do that?
I think it’s because most of what we know comes to us from outside influences; like fairy tales, love-at-first-site-happily-ever-after-with-no-problems-EVER movies and novels, lame advice from friends, stupid, and inane articles in most women’s magazines. and no tools to know how to do it any different.
So here are 7 ways to avoid getting hurt:
Don’t take it personally…. any of it
Don’t get physical too soon… it muddles the brain
Don’t lose yourself, stay centered, breathe deeply
Don’t try to guess “what did he mean when he did (said) that”
Enjoy each date, then go about doing your life well
If he calls, fine… if not, go about your life, refer to #1
Don’t get emotionally attached until he does
Easier said than done, but if you look at this list on a regular basis, maybe you’ll keep your wits about you and enjoy dating a whole lot more. If you really want to date smart, I have several programs that will help you attract a terrific man and get him to fall in love with you because you’re like no other woman he’s met. And learn to know if a man is a Caveman, a Dog, a Prince, or all three by downloading my three free ebooks here.