Are You Unknowingly Sabotaging Your Love Life?

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Are You Unknowingly Sabotaging Your Love Life?
This article reveals the 3 signs which indicate how you may be unknowingly sabotaging your love life

Are you tired of riding the rollercoaster of love? Is your love life a constant dance of two steps forward two steps back?

Well, when it comes to men, dating and relationships, you are not alone. In fact, there are over 50 million single women looking for love and like you many of them are frequent riders on this crazy ride.

Unfortunately most of these women are tired of the constant up and downs and would love to get off the rollercoaster once and for all.

There is an easy way to get off the rollercoaster of love. In fact it’s so easy it often gets overlooked. The next time in pulls into the station you simply have to do one thing….GET OFF!!!

It’s that simple. But for some it is simple not easy.

I promise you that the ride will end if you simply choose not to get back on.

So, the next time you think that the ride will be different if you try it just one more time just make a decision to stay off.

One of the conundrums that I see single women make in their dating life is that no matter how much you say you want a great guy and a great relationship, your choices and decisions often say the opposite. It’s like complaining the whole time you are on the rollercoaster and then immediately getting back on and going for another ride.

No matter how much you will say you want happiness you will do almost everything in your power to create misery in your love life. The problem is this happens at the subconscious level so most of the time you aren't even aware you are doing it.

Now, I must warn you what I am about to share with you might cause you to get angry, in fact it might even piss you off a little. But the reason I share it with you is because if you are unknowingly sabotaging your love life you will make it almost impossible to ever have the type of man and relationship you desire.

It is my intention, not to piss you off, but to wake you up to the insane behavior which is causing you to make things so much harder on yourself.

If you are reading this and you begin to feel yourself getting angry and upset, instead of sending me hate mail take a few minutes to calm down and really examine what I am saying.

I have found that almost every time someone says something that initially pisses me off it is because on some level I know there is some truth to their words.

I realize that once I get my bruised ego out of the way and really look at what they are saying more often than not I find that they are right and I am wrong.

Yes, My ego might be a lil deflated but once I pick it up off the floor and dust it off I realize that this new awareness gives me the ability to start making some changes in my life.

I have noticed that if you have pattern of attracting men who make you unhappy and relationships where you are unfulfilled it is because you are unknowingly sabotaging your chance of finding and having the relationship you desire.

In fact, if this has been your experience in your love life I bet you have at least one of the three signs of self sabotage which are blocking your path to love.

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Joe Amoia

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Dr. Joe Amoia, is the founder and creator of Smarter Dating For Women And The Ultimate Relationship Program. He is also the author of the soon to be published book, Smarter Dating For Women.

Dr. Joe's unique approach to dating and realtionships is based on his 5 Step Relationship Success Formula, The same formula he used to find & meet his wife in less than 90 days.

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