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What Makes a Man a Really Good Sex Partner?

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What Makes a Man a Really Good Sex Partner?

Sex is almost like a fine wine; it just gets better with time and age. It is the same with men and sex. Most men, in the beginning of their sexual history, are inexperienced but always trying to figure out new methods to help their partners have better orgasms. The same goes for women. It takes a while before a woman is in touch with her sexuality and is comfortable exploring and learning what makes her cum harder.

Men with lots of experience in bed

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Even men that have had several women in bed can really suck. It just happens! The reason is likely that they are selfish in bed and only care about themselves and blowing their load. They never take the time to see what the woman wants or likes. However, there are men that have had several women and have made sex an art form. These are the men that are going to be insanely good in bed. Not only do they know all about oral sex, but they know just how to find the G-spot. That can make sex explosive. You know you have had explosive sex when you just lie there afterward, basking in a glow of sweat. Experience comes with practice and age, so don’t get discouraged if you are young. Take the time to know your partner and listen to any requests. You won’t be sorry.

 

Body image is vital

When a woman is in bed naked, she is already frightened about her body. When a man slides in next to a woman, the most important thing  he can do is make her feel beautiful and sexy. Even if a woman has a few extra pounds, a man has to treat her as if she is the sexiest woman in the world. Doing this opens a new world of sexual exploration. The whole weight issue is thrown out the window, and the woman will love sex with her partner even more. Most women will never say exactly how they feel, so immediately start kissing her all over her body. She won’t even be able to digest her insecurities, because she will already be getting aroused.

 

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Sexual exploration

Once past all the obstacles, like body image or lack of experience, the fun part happens. This is when you and your partner are completely in touch with each other. Fulfilling fantasies and trying new things are always enjoyable if everyone is in agreement. You might even find a new spot that will make your partner go nuts. Keeping everything in bed new and exciting can make your partner very excited to come home each day. Not  knowing if there is going to be a special surprise can be highly erotic.

 

Romance, romance and more romance

Women love romance. You can never go wrong with romancing your partner. One of the biggest mistakes men make is having little to no romance in their relationship. Everything can get boring and become routine. When you romance your partner with a nice meal, some good wine, then proceed to the bedroom, it opens a whole new level of eroticism. These are the nights when you and your partner are going to be very eager to please each other and try new things out. Your partner is already going to be sexually charged, itching to give you what you are seeking. A small hint that can help along the sexual adventure: While you are having your meal, you can start talking about what you are going to do to each other at home later. It might strike up a new idea or fantasy that opens the door to adventure.

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