Things That Go Bump In The Night: Beware of Booty Calls
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Its 3am. You have just come back from a night on the town and are somewhat intoxicated. Your phone rings and it’s him - the guy from the bar the other night or one of your ‘special’ friends. He invites you over to his apartment. Now the question is, to go or not to go? Bigger dilemma, he offers to pay for your cab. You don’t need to walk in the cold, figure out how to take public transportation at this hour, or make the dumb mistake of driving a car. You don’t want him to think you are easy, but you would like to go over because you would like to see him. Consequently, you are also inebriated as well. He IS paying for the taxi. Does this mean he really likes you? What to do in this situation?
Since the rise of the cell phone, alcohol infused late night hook ups, also known as booty calls, have progressed quicker than your man’s libido. Be careful how you handle them as they can be a dangerous weapon of self-destruction.
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Texting is the easiest way to make your intentions known because there is no verbal contact. It’s not in your face, although the call may well result in something along those lines. If the answer is no, his pride remains pretty much intact.
The booty call typically occurs when the bars have been let out after closing time, or when a party has ended. The fact is alcohol makes guys horny and the hornier a guy is the more stupid he becomes. This makes him more likely to call you in the late hours, just as you’ve drifted off to dream about someone sexier, to convince, plead and often, beg you to come over.
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Your judgement may be clouded if you have been in the club getting tipsy. You may decide to go because your carnal urges have awoken, too. However, if you are stone sober and receive this call. Stop and think. Would this person call you at 3 in the afternoon? Does this person ever want to spend time with you when the sun is up?
Booty calls fall into four main categories:
